This guy I've known for a long time. We've flirted back and forth with each other. But it's never gone any further then this. I guess you could call us acquaintances to semi friends. For instance at christmas I gave him a card. I could tell he really appreciated it. Sometimes when he passes by me at work he'll smack me on the arm. He also has been concerned about me when I've had a bad day and vise versa. The thing is sometimes he'll really look at me and on several occasions when he hands me something he'll just look right down at my chest. I'm a decent size, and some of my shirts have shown this off in a classy way though, I'm at work. And I'm a very sweet girl, and anyone who knows me knows this. I'm very shy around him, so is he looking for a one night stand with me? He's only 26 and I'm 35, so I know he couldn't want more then this. But from what I've said does it sound like he wants this from me, but knows he'd hurt me. So avoids this, situation.
2007-02-13 11:37:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you're going to say don't wear low cut shirts if you don't want him to look. But it hurts because if this is what he wants from me, and all he wants after knowing me for a year. Doesn't he see me at all?
2007-02-13 11:38:46 · update #1
Guys like boobs.
Guys like sex.
That is the given.
What and how he feels is impossible to answer because he looks at you. I am 30 and I look at every girl that I see. I am engaged and I do not want to sleep with them, but I cannot help but to look. It is like a part of my genetic makeup or something.
2007-02-13 11:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by AntDU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really can't tell from the description. he could just be a good friend, or the type who just likes to flirt with everyone, or he might like you. i don't think staring at your chest really has anything to do with anything. it's just a guy thing, if you wear somthing sexy they'll probably take a peek. it doesn't mean much. i don't think the age difference is that ridiculous if you like him, be flirty, hint that you might like him, see if he's into you.
2007-02-13 11:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is attracted to you and likes your chest.. That's what guys want to do.. usually..
2007-02-13 11:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋