i liked this guy for 2 years we were friends, i told him how i felt, he turned me down. I lost 30 pounds and got down to 125 pounds, at 5"7" and im 18. I saw him in the halls a few weeks ago, he smiled at me a looked as if he liked me. So i began to text him again, he starting asking me these questions such as, would i ever have sex with him, and he was pushing it, he knows that i wanna wait to have sex till ifall in love..
He even asked for a pics of my P.... and i said no, he pushed it and said why, no one has 2 know, so i got mad a yelled at him. he said "remeber those words" and he said for me 2 never talk to him again.
hes a real good friend tho, he caring and nice. wen he sees me in the halls i get the look like im sry, and i want u!
is it best to not talk to him again? or what do i do? cuz i dont want to looose his a friend? is it my fault that were not friends?
2007-02-13 11:29:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh goodness.. First remember, it is in NO way YOUR fault! and I hate to say it, but best advice I can give is let it go. He really isn't worth being friends with. He may say he is sorry, but he should have never disrespected you like that to begin with.
2007-02-13 11:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by liz26767 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest be straight up with him and tell him that u aint no hoe and that he really hurt u.u don't want to loose your friendship but the way he acted was wrong.be real and honest wit him and this is my opinion but i don't think he is a true friend because if he was a good friend and he knew u were waiting till u were in love, he wouldn't have said those things.so just be straight with him and if he doesn't understand,let him go cuz there are peeps out there who care for u and actually want u to be friends with u no matter what he's not worth yourfriendship if he doesn't understand or respect u
2007-02-13 19:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by gillian k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't your fault he shouldn't be so pushy. Make it clear to him what you are looking for don't lead him on in anyway. Than tell him how important the friendship is to you. Because if you choose just to start having sex and doesn't work than that will even hurt you from being his friend. Don't let any man push you into having sex. You know when it is right and if they are worth it.
2007-02-13 19:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by abbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is not really nice - he's a perve! How disrespectful to ask you these things!! You sound like a beautiful and intelligent girl, why would you waste your time with a loser? You are so much above this guys level. Find someone who actually has respect for women. Save yourself for the person you do not have to question motives!!!!!!! Talk to someone who wants to know you as a person.
2007-02-13 19:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he's not a friend in the true sense of the word. If he were, he wouldn't disrespect you. He sounds like a typical, immature 18 year old boy. Move on. It's hard, I know, but you'll thank yourself later.
2007-02-13 19:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Doxie-Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes like every other guys see's a hot girl and just wants sex if he really wanted to be freinds and or more he woulda been there throw everything even when u were heavery good job by the way at loseing that much. well i would still be freinds but cauistion and tell him u dont want sex or anyhting and see if he still sticks around or pushes you or gets over it and still nice and wat not
2007-02-13 19:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle is a HOT blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes way too horny... and an asshole. I wouldn't talk to him for a long time and then if he seems cool again after a few months ask him what he was thinking.
2007-02-13 19:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by camdocta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if your really sorry then just tell him... but hun trust me on that any boy 17 or up all they can think about is sex so yeah he is a tipical man
2007-02-13 19:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by emily v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your fault and yes you should talk to him again vause everyone is human and makes mistakes!!
2007-02-13 19:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by FairyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treated you that way he is no freind and doesnt desever your friendship
2007-02-13 19:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by animeaddict195x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋