I'm a decent looking guy. On a rate between 1-10 ,I'd honestly give myself a 8 1/2 on a scale. I was married to this lady that was 5 years younger than myself. She was 19 years old and I was 24 years old. I met her threw my younger brother it was is girlfriends older sister. She had a 2 year old daughter in which I raised as my own for like 3 years and she called me daddy. Because I was the only male figure that she'd ever known, I love her as she was concived by her mother and my self. See what really get's to me , is that she had nothing or a place to stay . Her older sister wanted her to move out , even with out no place to stay. When I met her I owned my own 3 bedroom house, a good annually paying job. About 3 months ago I factually seen her hugging and being fondled by her ex-boyfriend . I confronted her and asked her , after about 2 day's later and her reply was. "Are you following me!" I said to her . I'm leaving my house for 2 day's.Move out with your ex ? right or wrong?!
2007-02-13 11:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by I'm so Bad , I'm good!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude your life is confusing and i think you are write and yes i am a female
2007-02-13 11:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you have a lot going on for you. You have to sum it all up. You are a good looking guy with a good job and you have a really good heart to open yourself up to marrying this lady who has a child that is like your own. She is cheating on you and you need to find out why. If she truly does love you and wants to work it out then you should go to counseling. Although you sound like a great guy it could just be that there is something missing in this relationship and it just needs to be worked out. Good luck.
2007-02-13 11:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Nina C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems like she is hiding something-why would she ask if you were following her? i think you did the right thing, you have been nothing but good to her & her daughter & its too bad that she would risk losing you for an ex-maybe you will be able to work things out but at least She knows your not taking any of her B.S. stand your ground & if it was meant to be, it will. GOOD-LUCK!!!
2007-02-13 11:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by mida-mida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sounds of it she obviously still lives with you and if she is doing these things I think it is best for her to move out!! Maybe wait untill she has a stable place to go as she has a little child!!
2007-02-13 11:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer a virgin and that i does no longer care both way. they are advantages to both decision, virgins you do not ought to emphasize about STD's and also you experience particular being their first time, yet non virgins understand what they are doing and do not make issues too emotional or awkward through letting emotions get in the way. i wager it basically relies upon. significant sex=virgin. warm, stranger sex=non virgin (:
2016-12-04 03:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by cheathem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...im really sorry..that must really suck...you need to somehow get her out...but that may have been a little harsh...if you married her out of pity...well...thats not good...but there is definitely some relational problems...pray about it...good luck...i know ill be praying for u =)
2007-02-13 11:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Colie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sad but you are right. "are u following me?" instant guilt...u will miss them, time heals all wounds, hold your head up, u have done nothing wrong. Its up to you to decide what you are willing to accept in a relationship.
2007-02-13 11:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right...
2007-02-13 11:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right.....
2007-02-13 11:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋