if i meet a woman and have sex with her long before we know each other long enough to be in love and later fall in love everything is cool
if i fall in love with a woman and we dont have sex the first time until quite a while later say 3 months i have found that in the bedroom sex is just altra basic. no wild stuff at all i mean its like basic sex one 0 one.
i am not suggesting that with the other women its kinky but say oral sex that happens but with the wait for sex girl by the time it comes around i dont feel i can ask or suggest such a thing .
whats up with that???
2007-02-13 11:16:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have a problem with intimacy and need to consider what you really want in a relationship. From what you have said it sounds like the closer a woman is to you the less honest you can be, so you need to ask yourself why.
2007-02-21 09:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by jammydodger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dating the wrong women. And you need to look carefully at yourself.
In the first scenario you are thinking you are in love with her because the sex is great. In the second scenario you are really falling in love with the person because lust isn't clouding your judgment, but then you find out that she is not a passionate person.
You need to find a woman that is both.
2007-02-14 17:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋