About 4 months ago I started seeing someone. Previous to that I had been single for aout 10 months. I enjoyed it, it was a time to reflect and explore the dating scene. Needless to say it wasn't fun and so I stopped dating for a while just to hang with friends and have some fun. I met a guy who is 4 years younger than myself, mature for his age, funny, a little wild, but overall a nice guy. We hung out for about a month, and then we started to date officially. We took it slow, I felt comfortable, not anxious like I had in my previous relationships. Things then started to move a lot quicker, worked got busier, and all of a sudden I found myself very busy with no time for myself. The winter has been cold and I've been getting outside a lot less. (In the summer I am outside at least 3-4 hours a day after work) Anyway, I feel this anxiety inside that I am missing something. I feel as though sometimes it would be "corrected" if I was single again, but then wonder if I would be lonely again?
2007-02-13 11:14:18 · 3 answers · asked by Adam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to be single to have "me time", and it sounds like this is exactly what you need. Make plans to do something special with your friends once a week. Start getting out more doing things you enjoy, like taking a class, exercising, etc. Encourage your boyfriend to do the same. This will make the time you do spend together happier and more special.
Make some changes, and see if this helps how you're feeling, before you break up with a perfectly nice guy because you're feeling anxious. Hope you can beat the winter blues!
2007-02-13 11:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by eileezy2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships shouldn't make you feel like something is missing. relationships shouldn't interfere with your life, it should be a part of your life. just relax... try to find time for yourself and see if things get better. if not, and you think it's the relationship, then call it quits or just be friends, and explain yourself to your partner. get some help.
2007-02-13 19:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's not the one.......or you aren't ready for it....take your time...whats the rush.....
2007-02-13 19:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋