I get told I'm pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, etc. alot by guys. I'm a good athlete. I have a nice body. And a good personality to. So why the heck am I single. I'm really starting to get depressed. Well not depressed but bummed.
2007-02-13 11:06:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe guys are intimidated by your beauty
2007-02-13 11:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥NEVAR♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If you do, you'll become desperate...and desperation turns men off more than anything. I have friends who have been single for years. There's nothing wrong with them, except that they want boyfriends so desperately that they drive potential candidates away. Don't obesses. Pursue your own life, and when it's time, you'll find the right guy.
Focus on your friends, your hobbies, your career. You don't need a guy to make you whole. If you think you do, then you half a self esteem issue, despite your good looks.
2007-02-13 19:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guys are intimidated by you. How do you carry yourself? Do the guys think that you are a snob? Be friendly and open and smile and laugh as much as you can Maybe you are not aware of the fact that you are projecting an attitude that is making you unapproachable.
2007-02-13 19:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter told me that when she decided to quit looking and she got interested in a hobby, volunteer work etc. that the guys started coming out of the woodwork.
So be patient my dear, Sandra is happily married today.
Your man is out there and he will discover you any day.
2007-02-13 19:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen!I feel exactly the same way.I have conducted my own investigation and I have a theory...........The type of man that you may be attracted to is intimidated by you or shy.On the other hand there may just be a shortage of "Quality" date worthy guys in your area.Get out more mingle in new places.Good Luck!
2007-02-13 19:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by ma so lovley 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have guys asked you out and you turned them down? there are a few facts missing here, but sometimes it is just hard to find the right person. 44 years and I am still looking. And when I think of the loosers I wasted my time with.
2007-02-13 19:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was told the same for many years,,,til I figured out that men will always need a momma. So, starting taking care of his feelings and wants,,they are suckers for that. lol.
2007-02-13 19:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a couple of things...
guys could assume, that since you are such a good catch that you must already be with someone.
guys could be intimidated by you.
Maybe your goals are set too high.
Maybe you are not in the right place to meet people.
Maybe you should initiate a contact.
2007-02-13 19:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why is....... because boys dont want to get hurt! and they think that the pretty ones will hurt them.. so they go for the UgLY or ok girls,
2007-02-13 19:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by Becky M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little cocky. Guys dont like that... well some shallow guys do. So just mellow out.
2007-02-13 19:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by C&J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋