my bf who is1 year older than me wants to have it with me for the first time towmarrow and i'm nervous
ps. i'm 16 and he is 17
2007-02-13 11:06:35 · 9 answers · asked by confused emo gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is good to want, it builds character. Keep him wanting, he needs more character.
Only have sex if you want to have sex, and if your ready for sex. Sex has consequences. Babies, STD's, stigma, emotional and physical ramifications. Sex is good, but is it worth the risk w/o a long term commitment?
2007-02-13 11:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think u should because u r too young, and how long have u known him??and if u get pregnant(God forbid) u don't kno if he'll be there by your side.it better to wait cuz u can't really support yoself if something happend and not to mention if u get an STD i'm not trying to restrict u,but i'm just a caring person and my mom got me when she was very young and trust me she was struglin alot.there would have been alot of things she would have done if she didn't have me so i'm just trying to show u that waitin is better than huryin because u can never expect whats gonna happen but when u r stable u r ready for anything so i suggest wait.if he doesn't agree,then he's not worth losing it to him but if he's by yourside waitin then he may be yo first.patience,great things come from patience just wait!
2007-02-13 19:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by gillian k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're nervous your heart may not be into it 100%. Check yourself, if you feel pressure, it's wrong...if you feel uncomfortable at anytime you should stop an think "Is this really what I want?" Use protection without a second thought.
2007-02-13 19:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by AG74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont do it....wait till your 17+. You could completly ruin your life because of it......You could get pregnat. Think about the concequenses of your action. Live for today and not tomorrows satifactions.
2007-02-13 19:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by Alex C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable then go ahead but if you are still nervous and unsure then don't. Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel about it!!
2007-02-13 19:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you ready for it?
think, would you wait for another year?
if you are going to do it- make sure he is to WRAP IT- don't understand-use a condom
2007-02-13 19:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by manblind1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do it if you're ready to feel ashamed to say no,or that you are not ready.
2007-02-13 19:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by TH 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do it unless yoru ready.... obviously your nervous but is it becuae your scread or just excited... don't do it just to make him happy ... if hes cool he won't break up with you bc you want to wait
also if you do do it please be safe !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-13 19:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by hanntastic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't want to do it don't do it
2007-02-13 19:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by este chica es bonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋