ok well i've been going out with this guy for a while yet we were friends for years. today we kissed for the first time and i hated it. it wasn't him it was just that it felt like i was kissing my brother. so i ended it and now i feal guilty and sad. he wont pick up his phone now yet i still want to be his friend. also am at a rough patch in my life where i kinna need a boy friend. thier are lots of other guys but my newly ex proboly hates me what should i do?
2007-02-13 10:45:03 · 6 answers · asked by alliehotz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o wow.thats a toughie.your guy friend really likes you.if you guys have been friends for quite sometime then he really like[s/d] you.umm well at the moment he's really heartbroken because after all this time he finally got his chance with you and you kinda ruined it.i saw that you wait it out until he calms down.tell him exactly how you feel.EXACTLY.how kissing him felt wrong, how you want to be friends.tell him everything.i hope everything works out. =[
2007-02-13 10:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to be alone for a while and see how he feels? you did kiss him. Granted you felt indifferent and I have felt the same. But I also told the gal I kissed and more that it felt heart wrenching because we had a friendship that shouldn't of included this.
So I did the most honourable thing. I said I wouldn't find another girl till she found another man. Needless to say... most move on rather quick. But you do the Nobel thing and offered shared suffering.
2007-02-13 18:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he knows you still like him but only as a friend. Discuss with him the reasons why you broke up and see if he needs/wants to talk to you more about it. But don't let him go on and on about it. And if he wants his space, give it to him. He may be mad for a while but may just need time to cool off.
Even if you're lonely, don't get back together with him. It's not right to string him along just because you need to be with someone. Find time for yourself and enjoy being without someone for a while. It can be freeing to not have to worry about someone else!
2007-02-13 18:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Leia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't answering the phone, as he wants to protect his ego. he is hurt over all this. he is going to be upset at u, nothing u can do about it, if u don't want the guy there isn't much u can do about it.
2007-02-13 18:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to talk to him
2007-02-13 18:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him all this....he will prolly understand....HOPEFULLY as u said u two were friends for a long time....
2007-02-13 18:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋