2007-02-13 10:43:59 · 10 answers · asked by dummy_boy_cj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First her parents wont let her have boyfriends,
second shes the only girl in her family,so they look out for her the most.
Let me tell u about this week.
Monday was my b- day,so as i was walking her to class she asked me did i want to skip, i said yes.
so we walked out of the school and no we werent going to have sex.
We argued in the school parking lot about where we should go.
The police pull up put us both in the car wrote us tickets,took us to school.
there we spent the whole day in in school suspension.
So we couldnt even talk to each other.
Her parents found out and took her out of rotc which i kno she loved.
Another problem is my pschatrists told me we need to break up because it will be better for both of us.So i did.
but as soon as i got home i cried. So i imed her and told her i wanted her back she said she needed some time. Now she told me she was turning lesbian wich she was already bi .
2007-02-14 09:34:27 · update #1
you both are freaks..you need sensible normal partners to help you..you are better off apart.
2007-02-20 00:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really do not believe, you are solely responsible for the problems you and your girlfriend are having. You obviously confide in your Dr. and from the information you give him, he, in return is suggesting what is best for you.Your girlfriend is disobeying her parents rule about dating, so that is her doing. As far as the skipping school, well...that was BOTH of you breaking the rules. I think you and your girlfriend need some time apart to focus on yourselves. Sometimes being apart can give you a better perspective on a situation. Take a break, get yourself together, and do what is best for you. If your gf needs time to figure out her sexuality, all you can do is give her the space she needs. Good Luck to you both.
2007-02-21 14:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love/like/obsession hurts. She's not being direct w/you and you don't need to think that the trouble she's getting into is all your fault. She makes decisions also, so just try to hang in there. Cut all ties with her, because by telling you she's going to the other side, she means she really doesn't want anything to do w/you. You two are really young. Right now, it may not feel like it, but there will be someone else out there for you. Trust your psychiatrist, because most of them are really good at what they do, they're people from the outside looking in, so their judgment's a whole lot clearer.
2007-02-21 10:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm just as dumbfounded...you need to rephrase that one...
2-14: Thanks for posting more details....I'll try to help you out now.
sounds like the two of you are to blame for the whole mess to begin with...not just you. you both decided to each other of skipping and then you obviously couldn't get to an agreement which shows that you two have the same interests? Something wrong there........her sexuality though is questionable...Are you sure you'd want to be involved with one that is interested in playing around, both ways? Where I come from, you're either gay or straight...the ones that are bi usually are nothing but game players...in other words, like more than one, they are not monogamous, (Just so you'll know...).
I think you should really try and ask yourself if she really is the one for you...you've broken up before haven't you? Ask yourself "Why?" again and take it from there. Also you need to ask yourself, does she think you're right for her...obviously she's not sure, when she told you she needed time... sounds to me that you need to really rethink things out and take the insights and balance their weights out. More than likely, I don't think she is the one for you...Good Luck! Stay in school and wise up, you don't want any more problems for you, do you? Does she? I'm sure she's trying to work on that one too.
2007-02-13 19:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Rmprrmbouncer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all ... You sound like you don't love yourself. To have a relationship you have to love who you are....I have had a relationship where my man has put a lot of problems on me...I mean a lot...but that is love, taking the good with the bad...If she loves you and wants to be with you she will be there...problems are human... but if you want out and that is an excuse well that is a deeper issue.
2007-02-13 18:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by musictech2727 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You guys are still young. Just let it be for now, and don't get her in trouble with her parents.
2007-02-21 12:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends. How old are you? What kind of problems? Why are you causing them?
Can't answer with so little information.
2007-02-13 18:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What kinds of problems......you need to give some more details!
2007-02-13 18:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by Meadow Soprano 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nothing if she can't take it she'll leave you
2007-02-13 18:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by Todd C 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what kind of problems?????
2007-02-13 18:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Selena♥ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋