ok. first of all, im a male freshmen, valentine is a female freshmen. ok. last night she called me and asked me to be her valentine. and today, she asked another dude to be her valentine. and i thaugt that was kinda retarded. and according to her... me and him are her valentines. what should i do. i was think about sayn "skrew that im not your valentine any more," or forgettin about her and gettin another one. i could pretty easily. so what do you think?
and i accidentaly posted this in the martial arts section for somereason like 10 mins ago. so if it looks familiar, thats probably y.
2007-02-13 10:28:25 · 13 answers · asked by kieran 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha yeah be like "forget it I'm not your valentine!"... or go out and get another one so that you have two also. But yesh that is dumb... she's not allowed to have two..
2007-02-13 10:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by dabombae 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Hi there!
I would say not to tell her to skrew that. That's impolite. Just realize that Valentine's is a one day thing. If you really care about her, just let her be and show your true colors. Be kind. Be loving and gentle. Love is patient and kind. Once Valentine's day is over, do you think that other guy will stick around? Most likely not! Be the man! Don't be duped by the media that life is like a box of chocolates all the time! Forrest Gump didn't give up on Jenny. She had some messed up boyfriends. Maybe you will be the diamond in the rough. Maybe she is shy and you didn't give her a yes or no answer quick enough so she decided to find another Valentine. She isn't afraid to ditch you so be a man and show her that you are interested. Don't look jealous in front of her. She most likely was surprised that you wanted to be her Valentine and instead of hurting you, she said you were and the other guy was. Hey! Atleast she is honest! Good luck!
George
2007-02-13 18:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by George W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, Either way go and talk to her. If she is your girlfriend tell her that her having two valentines isn't something you like her to have. If she is not your girl friend and she just wanted to pick two guy friends that she likes to be valentines than what is so wrong with that?
You have got to decide what you will do but only AFTER you talk to her and find out why she did that.
Don't just dump her because you don't understand. Find out why and than react on that.
Bye.
2007-02-13 18:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by mistyfan69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like this girl is using you guys, I mean to get likeextra gifts and crap. Yeah I would just be like ok, you have two valentines already the normal sane person only needs one, so i'm gone. and if you like someone else get them to be your valentine, but don't use a girl either, that would be rude.
2007-02-13 18:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say get another valentine if you can
she might be having a competition with her friends to see who could get the most valentines...
2007-02-13 18:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by shelly 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
are you going out with her? If you are then what she did was not cool and you should end it. if you are not going out with her she might have just been joking around. If this is the case show her that her are also joking. Then ask someone for real. If you like someone.
2007-02-13 18:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Chat Noir 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No!You shouldnt her valentine or her bfbecause its like she is cheating on you.And YES what she said was stupid
2007-02-13 18:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like someone is a wee bit immature and extremely full of himself.
2007-02-13 18:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would go and get another 1, so then she could see what its like
2007-02-13 18:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by actorboi10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's being nice by asking you guys to be her valentine. it's not like she's asking you guys to marry her or donate sperm.
IF YOUR NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP, WHAT'S WRONG WITH HAVING TWO VALENTINES???????????
2007-02-13 18:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋