It seems like since I've been dating I've always gotten involved with a married older man, who tells me that he's happily married but, yet he's up in my face. Please answer this hard question?
2007-02-13 09:53:28 · 12 answers · asked by sexxy black 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did he make a move on you or is he just being friendly? What race are they? Race plays an important role because older black men are known to do this but sometimes white older men, but I have seen older black men do it more.
2007-02-13 09:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they are patheic losers. One of my friends has gotten involved with a married man now 3 times in a row and it has gotten to the point that I'm not even friends with her anymore because she doesn't make smart choices. Married men who cheat will lie and do whatever they can to have the best of both worlds.... There's no definate answer for this question... But I'd say they are bored and they should file for divorce. The wife will be better off in the long run because she won't have to deal with a cheating ******... And the women who get with married men are just as bad as those men themselves.
2007-02-13 17:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by coolpox003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 16 i knew this guy who was 26, happily married and had a few kids...he would always tell me that i was beautiful and that i should come visit sometime, so that we could "hangout"...basically there is something missing in their relationship with their partners...i know with "my guy: it was that she did not understand why he cut himself and why sometimes he just couldn't do something (because he was depressed)...this is where i came in...he needed someone to relate to him and I myself had gone through that and had seen friends go through and some that didn't. But if its sexual well then he is missing something in the bedroom too...just tell them that you are not looking to be a home wrecker
2007-02-13 18:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by forever and a day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are a no. of possibilities.
his marriage may be lacking something.
he may be bored ( same old same old)
he may commitment issues.
he may be unwilling to put the effort that is needed in his marriage.
Either way, getting involved with a married man is bad news, cause if he can cheat on his wife, he certainly will not be loyal to you, with whom he has less ties.
2007-02-13 18:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by fireangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really speak for the men. There are a lot of good, honest men. Then there are some, who, even though they love their wives, or at least love the comforts of home, who don't relate sex to love. Some of them want to feel young again.
2007-02-13 18:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just attract cheaters. I remember reading that you subconsciously attract people according to your personality. Contrary to popular belief, some married men don't cheat, and are dedicated enough to their families to not have any time to devote to trying to pick up women.
2007-02-13 17:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by Travis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it is THESE types of men you are attracted to and because of that they are attracted to you. Not ALL married men are looking outside of marriage...just OBVIOUSLY the guys you come into contact with. Maybe you need to look inside yourself and find out WHY you ARE attracted to these types ..Because if you weren't attracted to them you wouldn't make yourself available to them.
2007-02-13 17:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thrill and excitment of having a secret drives some men. Others, their spouse just can't keep up with their sex drive. Or they have childred and they can't see their wife doing all the kinky stuff they would like to do. They say they respect her to much.... Yeah, I agree... whatever!
2007-02-13 17:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by MassageGoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monogamy=Monotony.
2007-02-13 17:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married guys don't ALWAYS cheat...but since you cheat with them watch out for yourself...you're building up some pretty ugly karma and it's gonna catch up with you (what goes around, comes around).
Remember...by participating in cheating you are okaying yourself to be cheated on...good luck!
2007-02-13 17:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋