Question on my girlfriend??

Question

Hey guys, me and my girl of 9 years have been having some trust issues lately... and tonight she is doing something with her friend. She told me last night she was doing something with her, and I just spoke to her recently and I said, "give me a call when your done with your friend" and she said, "whoa, how did you know about that?" and i was like.. you told me last night. What do yall think about this?? Overreacting? She's never done this before. Just lately she's been hiding text messages, deleting calls, and emails.

Anyway, I have suspicions and wonder if she's cheating

Answer 1

If there's smoke there's fire. Go and see a decent PI. If you know your girlfriends cell number most now have software which can track and read text messages. It's not cheap though.

Answer 2

At first, I thought you were the one overreacting. But when I read that she is deleting texts, calls, emails, etc., that raised my eyebrow. That shows that she is hiding something (or someone) from you. Don't act paranoid and sneak around spying on her to find out anything. Just be up front and ask her about it. If she seems uncomfortable or gets very emotional, like getting very angry or sad, during the conversation, then you need to dump her. But if she seems genuine, trust her. But if it still feels all wrong, then trust your own instincts. <3

Answer 3

Hey bud, you know what ya can do if ya really wanna find out? Go to radio shack there's a small transmitter like the ones the ref's use at pro football games .But what this is, is a small tiny FM trans mitt-er that you tune a band on FM station that a radio station is not broad casting on , and you place it some where that she'd be talking to who ever, and you tell her that your going to the store for something.But you'd be a block away with your car stereo tuned in to the FM transmitter.

Answer 4

After 9 years she could be getting bored. Do something for her to spice up tha relationship some more. If you are concerned about cheating tha best thing to do is to confront her with it. If you think she will get mad just let her know its because of her behavior and that this isnt true than you are sorry for overreacting. Usually if she were to get mad it would be because she is scared that you have caught on. Good luck.

Answer 5

If you have suspicions, the best thing to do is confront her - you certainly have the right to. Tell her to be straight with you. If she's not cheating, then ask her what's going on.

Answer 6

I would deffenatly wonder if she is cheeting, if you have been together for nine years sit her down and talk to her, you should be able to talk about anything!!!! Tell her your thoughts, dont accuse her of cheeting, just let her know that you have been concerned. She may just want some privacy... Just tell her what your feeling with out sounding accusing!

Answer 7

Wait until tomorrow, cause she might just be getting you a gift for Valentine's and she wanted to surprise you. if she continues acting weird after tomorrow, then I would advice you to follow her and check what she has been up to.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

you need to be up front with her, ASK her, dont be a girl and sneek around trying to find out if she is cheating, go face to face with her and tell her your leaving then see if she comes back to you then youll know if she loves you

Answer 10

Sounds suspicous...if this is a new thing I would be very suspicious. Ask her what's going on, or keep your eyes open if she is doing you dirty she'll slip up.