I always get jealous when i see happy couples out in public. I think to myself, 'Why cant I have that?' I really want to have someone to care for and to care for me but its so hard. It seems like my love life is going nowhere no time soon. I tired of being single. I want to have somone to connect with.
2007-02-13 09:50:28 · 15 answers · asked by tell-it-like-it-is 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will..when you least expect it..stop looking and it will happen.
2007-02-20 00:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you are letting this idea of being single consume you. It's bothering you so much that it's becoming a job, or something of the sort, to find someone. Which is probably why you find the "jerks" because you rush into it thinking that being single is far worse. My advice is to take your time, there is someone out there for you. But life and love is all about timing. It's okay to get jealous and envy those who have what you don't. How to fix that? Do something about it...go out and meet people. Have fun and maybe if you don't think about it so much, it'll just happen. The unexpected types are always the best, not planned or rushed or anything. No luck that day or night? Try again. Don't give up!
2007-02-21 17:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by bL@(kR0s3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's natural, and I bet some of those couples look at you and wish they were single, it's just how life is. Maybe you're just trying way too hard. Try going out on a date and make 'having fun' your focus, not being serious and committing one day. Hang out w/other friends that are single and just take life one day at a time. Someone will be special enough one day to stand out and be mature.
2007-02-21 10:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost stop worrying about it and stop looking. As soon as I basically gave up on finding anyone I met a great guy. He's not perfect - but we have so much in common and I'm crazy about him. When I was younger I had a mental check list of what I was looking for - this guy would never have fit into my list and I'm so glad I finally tossed out all those things I thought I wanted.
2007-02-13 17:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was me until I realized that I was looking on the wrong level. As humans, we tend to go for what looks "pretty" for lack of better wording, but if we'd look a little deeper than the skin, we would find that it would be so much easier to sift through the relentless rat race of potential partners and find "the one"
2007-02-21 15:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by rikkijolene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont half to look for happines it will come to you. Once you stop looking so hard for it you will meet someone thats what happens to me a lot things happen when you least excpect it to happen life is funny in that way. And nothing is wrong with you.
2007-02-21 14:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's probably nothing your doing wrong unless you aren't meeting new people. Talk to women and get to know them and try asking them out to a casual setting. It might lead to a good friendship and possible a relationship
2007-02-13 17:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by darthdawson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U aren't doing nothing wrong. People just don't understand how sensitive u r. i would be lucky to go out with u
2007-02-21 11:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Drew the vols man, there # 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will come 2 u eventually......
u r lookin 4 the perfect guy ..bu u will (never) meet him. u have 2 stop looking 4 a while and b4 u no it he will come 2 u
2007-02-21 16:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can just give you the advice that was given to me: take it slow. if you think you've found someone, dont ask them out right away. if you are friends first then you will know them and whether or not they are right for you. it also helps to build trust if they know that you can be there for them as a friend, they'll know that you be there for them if you are more than that
2007-02-13 17:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're worrying about it, stop! Live life to it's fullest, love yourself; when it's your turn, you'll know. It can happen anytime, any place.
2007-02-21 17:05:55 · answer #11 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋