why dont i have a BF? (guys and girls)?

Question

just wondering, because Ive been asked that by many ppl, even some of my guy friends have said "maybe they're intimidated cause your pretty" but i dont think thats it cause my girls are very pretty and they get lotza guys liking em. i have a good personality, Im smart, act goofy alot, lol, i DONT like jewelry, i LOVE sports, i dont gossip, Im confident. why dont i have one? .....no smartass comments pls. I just wanna know

FYI i DO have very good hygiene. LOL(im just saying, cause ppl have been saying maybe thats why and NO thats not it either!)

Answer 1

i'm exactly the same way. people ask me that a lot too and i can never give them an answer because i dont know. i've been told that i look angry when people see me but it's just because that's how my face looks like, i mean, i'm not going to smile creepily at everyone. or maybe they think you're pretty but not girlfriend type. who knows what goes on in guys' heads. maybe you need to take a step back and see what people might think of you. & figure out how you're really like from other people's eyes.

Answer 2

The reason you don't have a boyfriend is that you really don't want one. First do a breath check and get to a dentist, second get to a gym, and third update the wardrobe goth is out. Get some girlly soap and use it. Get some new perfume to while you are shopping for soap. Hey grow up. Throw away your sneakers. Get a new hairstyle. When you see a halfway descent guy smile and say hi and when he speaks back act like you are interested. Smile all the time. Smile at everyone cause you never know who is watching. Speak to everyone. No one really likes you ICE-QUEEN and unless you take action you going to be a pretty lonely business lady with no husband, no kids, and a tiny little over priced condo, with a big SUV an no one to drive you around in it.

Answer 3

Well thats because, i think you are better than average, thats why guys think that a girl like you must already have a BF, so they dont make a move. The same think happens to me. But in a different way. Because i am so, i think charming!!!LOL, and romantic,LOL, (no i will me that), every girl i talk to they think i may be comming on to them, while i was just trying to be friends. then they see me talking to other girls just like i talk to them(the style i mean,( i have one, by born, i guess), they start to avoid me, as if i was playing the not interested game.
Did you get it, i dont. but hey, who said life was easy.
I think you should make the first move, if you like some guy, talk to him, he will find out you are interested, and then he will have courage to move on. So dont cry about why the prince charming is not commin, go get the prince charming, before anyone else does.
Take care sweetheart. be the player not the ball.

Answer 4

"The best way to accomplish something is to stop talking and start doing." - Walt Disney

Go socialize with some guys and ask one to hang out some time. Everyone can find someone. Even I, the creepy alcoholic Nintendo-geek loner, have a hot girlfriend.

But if you try too hard, things can go awry. I found that when I'm not even trying to get it, that's when I get it the most. Keep in mind also that when it rains, it pours.

Answer 5

do you bathe? have all your teeth? do you use deodorant? Geeze it must be something else then. Maybe in your need to do homework you are overlooking the news and what everyone is always talking about at school??? Maybe you aren't deep enough and your lack of conviction and passion in the way you talk is what is leading you down the lonesome highway. Try learning something everyday for two months. start with all the sports understand them all front to back then understand about all the bands who led the charts each week last year. Then know everything about cookies and puddings guys like sports music and desserts learn all you can and then bring one a cookie you baked and ask him if he might want to come home with you to study after school.

Answer 6

Maybe the guys assume that you're already taken by some other boy. I understand where you're coming from also a pretty girl with no man. It's really hard for me to get a boyfriend because guys seem to look at me but never approach me.

Answer 7

It is all about Fate. You could walk to your mailbox everyday at 3:43pm. However one day you decide to check the mail at 3:52pm. A guy walks by who intrigues you and yall start talking. Before you know it, you are dating and a couple years down the road your married. You will find the right person, it is a matter of time. Good Hunting.

Answer 8

You don't need a bf! The people who are making the comments probably have 'relationships' and that's why they question you. Have fun, don't tie yourself down, eventually the right guy will come along and you'll know it. Maybe the guys see you as one of them because of the love of sports, who knows. Point is: bf's are pain's in the a**, be free while you can and enjoy it!
Someone special will come into your life eventually. :-)

Answer 9

Because you are looking for one. The sooner you start concentrating on being happy by yourself and enjoying "present company" the sooner one will come along. People aren't attracted to others who have low self-esteem or feel like something might be wrong with them. Just find contentment in yourself and your friends and it will happen when you least expect it.

Answer 10

You're either unattractive, uninteresting, or you are attractive and are turning guys down. That's the bottom line. I'd have to guess the first one because many many guys(myself included) date pretty girls that are as dumb as a bag of rocks every day.