weve been together for almost 2 years and well after high school we both went to different colleges and he is 2 hours away from mine and we both have school and he cant come home till this weekend and i dont know if i should be as upset as i am its just we always are together for things like this and this is our first one what should i do????????????
2007-02-13 09:41:49 · 10 answers · asked by Jaylynn's mommy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its just so hard because we only get to see eachother every other weekend and its not only valentines day our anniversary is the 16th and he wont be home
2007-02-13 09:48:16 · update #1
i havent seen him in two weeks i miss him SO much, i feel like its been years since we have seen eachother but it hasnt i just miss being around him i miss, him messing up my hair, or wrapping his arms around me, or licking his finger and wipping it on my glasses, or taking cute pictures with him, or just laying on his chest and hearing his heart beat while were asleep, i miss him
2007-02-13 10:05:13 · update #2
Well call him, and ask him where he is at??
2007-02-21 04:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by piggylover_850 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be sad that situation is such that things didn't work out, but don't be upset at him. This is something that he can't change and happened to him too. If it is within his abilities to affect in a reasonable way, I'm sure he would have tried. To punish him or get upset at him for it is unfair and will just cause resentment. Make the best of it. Use the telephone. Use the computer. Use IM. Use email. Use whatever ou have to talk to and hear each other's voice. Tell him what you feel from your heart and how you feel about him instead of being angry. Whisper the sweet things you would have said to each other. Let the sound of his voice and expressions of how he feels about you be the last thing you hear before you fall asleep. Phone bill be damned. Whatever you do, don't sulk and let anger of the situation drive a wedge into your relationship. That isn't what the day is about, is it? That you can't spend this day together isn't the big deal. The anger and the resentment for not being able to accept things that you can't change, however, will negatively affect your relationship and outlive any 24 hour day.
When you finally do see him, spoil each other and make up for all the physical things that you wanted to do.
2007-02-13 10:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should celebrate that your relationship has survived the transition from high school to college, and accept that with the new maturity comes new things to learn - like how to be apart and still be in love. Now is when the two of you learn that you do not need to be surgically attached at the lips to express deep commitment and honour for eachother. Look forward to the weekend and congratulate yourselves on exploring this new-to-you phase of adult relationships. Very few couples get to be together every day all their lives. Business trips, commitments with kids, and even jobs can separate couples for any where from a day to a year. Distance doesn't matter if the commitment and honour are there.
Happy Valentines Day! Aren't you blessed to have someone in your life to love!!
2007-02-13 09:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by JS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point in being upset? Be mature and realize you cannot be together on Wed the 14th this year and you will see him when you see him.
Why get upset over some over-commericalized retail holiday anyway? One would hope you show him how much you care about him a WHOLE LOT more frequently than 1 day a year, because the calendar says you should...
Be happy you have a boyfriend and y'all dig each other...stop whining because you can't see him tomorrow.
2007-02-13 09:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!! He is doing all he can and if you two do get married ( wishing the best of luck too) don't younwant a husband that is well educated and is thinking about everything??? Think about it. He will be thinking about you that whole day and if you could hear his thoughts then you would hear him say "I miss my girlfriend so much and I can't go see her today because I have class , And if I could go and see her today i would listen to her all day long and never waste a single minute of our time together" now don't you want a Boyfriend like that???
2007-02-21 09:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by populargirl528 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him and be a good gal all day....send him a couple of ute text messages saying stuff like " missing u today", "hope its going well" or "just a smile i love you" thats if u two have gotten to that stage in ur relationship....
But its ok to be upset a bit cause u do wish u were with him but dont worry u will be on the weekend and then u'll have about 2-3 days to make up.....*wink*
2007-02-13 09:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by amanda710us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Its just another day. You guys live 2 hours away and he's in school just like you. Make the best of the weekend!
2007-02-13 09:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf and I will likely not be able to be together on VDay - but we agreed to celebrate on the weekend. It's just a date on a calendar. You have to learn to not sweat the small stuff. Don't get stressed about the date - just look forward to the weekend.
2007-02-13 09:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a rest girlie! This is the very reason guys can't stand commiting to girls
2007-02-13 09:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by mike Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmph I guess but happy v day
2007-02-13 09:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋