My boyfriend of six months lives with his ex-girlfriend, which i was aware of before i started dating him, i put up with it.. but now it's gotten to the point where he is there more than with me. He is 23 and doesn't have his own house, or car. He uses her car, and was using mine for awhile. He barely calls me, and when i ask to see his phone.. he won't let me. I don't want to believe he's cheating on me, but all signs are pointing to yes. Is there any other reason he could be acting this way besides infidelity?
2007-02-13 09:40:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I actually spoke with him tonight about all of this, and he claims that he's been distant lately (probably within the past month) because he has a lot of problems, and he wants to be alone most of the time. I told him i wanted to be number one to someone, and he responded that he'd be back in a couple months after he'd fixed his problems.. to which i said i wouldn't be here when he got back. He replied with "i'll call you back later." and he's been calling and calling, and i haven't answered.
2007-02-13 14:08:53 · update #1
i would say that yes, there probably is something between them. i also think that you owe it to yourself and to your relasionship to confront him about it. if you do, dont act angry, just be serious. if you act angry then he'll just get defensive. dont let him avoid the question either, if he goes off on another subject be sure to bring the topic back. i hope that he isnt cheating on you, but that doesnt seem likely. good luck!
2007-02-13 09:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K ill break this to you straight up!!! he isnt cheating on you he is cheating o HER!!, he lives with her, he drives her car... it is all bullshit that he is telling you, I am sorry that someone did this 2 u. it has happened to me, what u need to do is tell her! she isnt the problem HE IS, so what you really need to do is get yourself some serious strength, dont answer the phone or door if its him, this loser needs to get a taste of his own medicine!!!
2007-02-13 17:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jacquelyn V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really admire you that you can put up with all that stuff. There is no reason for him to act like that. He is just using you. And he is a bump, a parasite that live on expense of woman. KICK HIS XXX
2007-02-13 17:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by winkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether he's cheating or not, let him go. At his age he should be a little more 'together' than he is. Move on and find someone who is a little more independent...and whom you feel you can trust.
2007-02-13 17:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd believe he was cheating. I mean, you're correct. All signs are pointing to yes.
2007-02-13 17:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Vshak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship you're in is causing you a lot of stress. End the relationship and find one less stressful.
2007-02-13 17:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by dave_cooke1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u dating a 23 years old guy withous a house?? what do u get out of this relationship??
2007-02-13 17:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOpe. He sounds like he's cheating! Nine times out of ten...if you have a "feeling" that he's cheating...he is.
2007-02-13 17:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by amanda r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesnt want to do nothing for himself...what could he possible do for you when he is all that matters...actions speak louder then words
2007-02-13 17:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by timandbev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get rid of him. he might have lost interest in you. whether it be infidelity or whatnot, you deserve better.
2007-02-13 17:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋