I've almost officially decided that there is no one out there for me. everytime i like somone i can't have them. All the other guys are just perverted. I hate guys like that. Are they all like that?
2007-02-13 09:39:33 · 29 answers · asked by Katie M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm going to take a wild guess and assume that you're either in high school or middle school.
First off, you can never generalize an entire group of people (esp a whole 1/2 of the planet!) but i do see what you're trying to convey.
Guys at this age, i'd say about 70% of them, will be perverted and immature. We hit maturity later than females do. Which means ya'll hit maturity and are looking for what you just will not be able to find at your age.
Give it time though, a semester of college will smooth em out. For some it takes a year of college. And for others they smarten up senior year of high school.
So you get my point, just give them time or accept that you will have to search pretty hard to find a guy right now. But please don't just give up. Then you get no guys. And then when they're ready you wont be so you'll remain with no guys.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-02-13 09:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya girl. I haven't found one guy this year that was my age and never thought about everything in a perverted way. I still don't believe that all guys are like this. I like to believe that there is Someone out there for me and he will find me some day. Everytime I like someone I can't have them either because they go after someone else or someone else goes after them. Just wait a little longer and Im sure you will find someone special, Don't rush these things there not all like that there are some good ones SOMEWHERE
2007-02-13 17:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by free 2 love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a matter of the guys you pick. I'm learning as I get older to be patient. The right guy will come along when you least expect it. If your a religious or spiritual person, pray about it and be specific about what you want, although God is going to send you what you need. Everything happens for a reason too. Obviously those guys weren't meant for you, that's why they're not around. Enjoy getting to know you in the meantime.
2007-02-13 17:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys are boring though, bad boys are more fun in my opinion. Guys it seems never know what they want like my ex doesn't know what he wants half the time then a guy I met a few weeks ago wanted to plan our wedding after an hour of knowing me - loser!!! Just don't look then you will find what you want without even realizing it. I am not looking and guys are coming at me like gangbusters.
2007-02-13 17:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In one way or another guys are perverted! Now my Pruish Princess, it is time for you t remove the stick that is wedged up your gazu and quit being a self-pitying, nobody likes me, its their fault girl and try developing into a healthy, loving, caring woman.
2007-02-13 17:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uumm well all of the single ones are pervs it's like that for a reason your just a bit slow on the draw if you get me
but all of us men are pervs but the good ones wont let you know it
till later so ya either steal a man or try to get a rebound hahaha sorry for the lack of help cheers!
2007-02-13 17:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no their not all like that...my man is great. He's not a pervert an he treats me right...flowers jewelry cigarettes etc. yer jus lookin in all the wrong places er turned down the right guy at the right time. keep at it...it'll happen.
2007-02-13 17:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by mudslut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but the extent of it is different person to person. almost every normal guy will want to have sex, enjoys watching sex. its all perfectly normall. Its when it begins to consume too much of his life that its a problem. also sexual compatibility between partners is a must, because if one has a high sex drive while the other has a low one, problems will result.
2007-02-13 17:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by tkim90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL guys (or gals) aren't like anything...people are individuals...so stay away from the "perverted" ones.
2007-02-13 17:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea i sorta feel like that 2 but i've found out that if they are not perveted they are just jerks...but i still think that there is still someone out there 4 everyone we just have to stop looking for it and let love find us...but there is at least that one perfect guy out there for u.
2007-02-13 17:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_him001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋