I think that my boyfriend only likes me for my derrière & not my personality?

Question

he is always working or playing with his brothers doing sports and sure he likes coming home to me and plays with me but i feel left out cause he never invites me to his mom's home for family parties.
i've mentioned it many times to him and he thinks i'm not serious, i'm soon to give him ultimatum...
what do you think ?

B'friend and I rent an apartment together and his mom visits us often & even she doesn't understand why Derek doesn't invite me to parties.
No other single female is in his life, hardly makes time for me :)

Answer 1

nothing better that a big back side and a great cook combined.
if you do both he'll never leave you and your secure but i suggest you start going to parties of your friends and then you old man will slowly get the picture that you don't always want to be left alone .
sometimes we people are real slow

Answer 2

What does this have to do with your derriere?
Just how big is it?
Sounds like he is being himself and you think he should worship you. You need to get over yourself (I mean that in a nice way). He could be embarrassed about his mother and his in-laws could have a host of issues he would rather you no know about. This does not mean he don't love you derriere. He is just being him and you are just being you. Relax. And tell us more about the derriere.

Answer 3

He sounds like a complete J@@ck @@@ss

Answer 4

it doesn't matter what I think...you're the one who has to deal with him...if you don't expect much from him then guess what; you won't get much...maybe he already has someone who he takes to his mom's home...

Answer 5

he sounds very shallow

Answer 6

he's a perv