Me and my x have been broken up for 2yrs and we have a child together. He is currently in a 1 1/2 yr relationship with a woman who is older than him and who he also works for. I recently moved back from out of state with our child (Which he has never really got over me leaving with his son) about 2months ago. He had told me he had thought we would get back together but also that his current g-friend was pregnant. This Saturday we went out as friends but I got drunk (he did not) and we had sex, the whole time we had sex he was very distant and I told him I still love him, he never said it to me but he did say he missed me and why did I have to move back. He stated he has never cheated on her and also how he does not want the baby or see himself having a life with her. What should I think of what happened this weekend? should I take it as a last fling for he and I? Does he love me but is still mad cause I left with our son? What should I think of all this and what should I do? Need Help!
2007-02-13 09:30:14 · 6 answers · asked by wants to know??? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He said he never cheated on her as he was having sex with you?
I'll tell you what he wants - free sex. The guy's a loser. He's a crappy excuse for a father. Why would you care what he wants? move on.
Added:
Ummm, to those who have suggested "he must really like this new girl" - did you miss the part where he had sex with another woman?
He's a dirt bag.
2007-02-13 09:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bill S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish that I could say how he feels, but unfortunatly only he knows. I will have you to look at the big picture, if he cheated on you with her later on in life, he will do the same to you. I'm sure by you leaving with your son had an impact on him and he may or may not ever get over it. In all honesty, if he thought that the two of you were going to get back together he would have left her pregnant or not. The two of you drinking together is another story. One thing led to another and it sounds to me as if he regretted it the way you say he was distant. Men don't want to hear that you love them, they want to hear that you agree with them. When you're on the same page as them, they don't know what to think and or believe. It confuses them. When you add two and two together, he did cheat on the other woman. If I were you and I'm not, I would try to move on with my life. I know it may be difficult but men make false promises and then someone gets hurt in the long run. I would be the better individule to walk away. Good luck to you and right now, I think the important thing is for your son to obtain a relationship with his daddy while you keep your distance.
2007-02-13 17:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jerry S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he used you for sex, he isn't happy in his current relationship, and he is a man, men use women for sex, sorry to say, we end up falling prey to them, and then we sit here and doubt ourselves, put ourselves through hell wondering this and wondering that. Leave him alone, let him deal with his new life and make sure he is a great father to your son, and move on! Don't wreck their home
2007-02-13 17:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm personally under the impression that he really likes this new girl, especially as the relationship's lasted 1 1/2 years. of course, it's also possible that he's finally settled back into life after you, and doesn't want to have to start over again.
2007-02-13 17:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by blaacke 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's not sure what to think. Give it time and see what happens then if he seems to pay more attention then take action.
2007-02-13 17:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Shaynee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-02-13 17:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by roselyn_okoche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋