When I was kissing my boyfriend, he asked me if i wanted to touch his..you know, and i didnt want to...
im 14 and is this weird at all?
2007-02-13 09:28:03 · 16 answers · asked by elementamigo92 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-13 10:00:43 · update #1
It's not weird that he asked, and it's not weird that you said no... you're both just being 14 year olds... the guys are usually ready to go further and the girls usually want to wait for stuff like that, which is a good thing... so you're good!
Oh, and I just want to say thanks for spelling weird right... you have no idea how many people on Answers spell it like "wierd"... I hate that.
2007-02-13 09:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird at all. Never do anything you don't want to do. If you feel uncomfortable doing something, that's your feeling. No one can tell you that it's wrong to feel that way.
Maybe you're just not ready to start down that path. Once you start doing more physical things, you'll just want to do more. Take your time and each thing will be more special. Don't rush in to anything...after all, you're only 14 and you have so much of your life left -- and so many years to be dating!
2007-02-13 17:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Leia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird at all. You are only 14, and there is no need to rush anything. Your boyfriend is obviously wanting to do more than kiss. Be very careful, you don't want to lead him to believe it will go there. Don't let him pressure you into doing things you don't want to do.
2007-02-13 17:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it weird for you to say no? Absolutely not! You are only 14, way too young to be entertaining these thoughts. Do not let your boyfriend pressure you.
2007-02-13 17:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by heatheranne102777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is his asking weird or your not wanting to wierd?
If he is your age, you are both too young to be touching each other's genitals. Tell him to keep his penis zipped inside his pants for a few more years. Neither of you are ready for sex or the potential consequences.
2007-02-13 17:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your only 14 that would be freaking scary.... Your still a baby yet. Tell him to slow down!
2007-02-13 17:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by laura_mae83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no. Its not weird that he wanted you to. And it is not weird that you didn't want to. Boys just start maturing sexualy about this time. But don't do anything you will regret.
2007-02-13 17:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by hitman53jb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. you are to young. enjoy being a teenager. you dont have to have a boyfriend to be cool. my daughter started like that and now she has a baby at 15. is that what you want?
2007-02-13 17:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by apetcable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not weird, pretty normal for a man to be pushy to engage in sexual acts. dont ever let him feel like you have to do those things if you dont want to. furthermore even if you want to you shouldn't, you are WAY WAY too young.
2007-02-13 17:32:40 · answer #9 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No thats not weird. Dont give into peer pressure.
2007-02-13 17:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋