me and my bofriend have been together for 2 months today and we have only seen each another twice, all my friends think im making a big mistake, he works full time during the day and i work on the weekends so its hard for us to see each another i really dont kno what to do about it? i cant not see him ever :(
2007-02-13 09:20:36 · 15 answers · asked by amandeep k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 months you seen him twice? thats not a boyfriend sorry
2007-02-13 09:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Working weekends is hard. Maybe u need to find a job more suitable in order to have time or can u work alternative weekends? You said ur boyfriend works days and u weekends. What of the weeknight? With relationships comes compromises. So if u two wish this relationship. somebody got to compromise.
2007-02-13 17:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by thrillseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't carry on not seeing him ever. either you could dump him and find a guy you can spend enough time with, or try to spend more time with your boyfriend. from the question, i'd say you want to spen more time with him. try comparing timetables and fitting empty evenings together e.g. every wednesday and friday night? you can't both work 24/7
if you really do like him, then it's not a big mistake, but for the same reason, you've got to see him more. at the moment he's not really a proper boyfriend.
rachel
2007-02-13 18:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with someone for a year and we never see each other hardly. It's heartbreaking and so hard, but if he's mr right, you'll have to be really strong and try to deal with this and talk to him about it. Surely you can both come to an arrangement that would allow you to spend more time together. Good luck and i hope it works out.
2007-02-13 17:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u r living a lie.... there is no relationship here.. OK as u said u works full time and u on the weekends. does he work 24 hours?
i think u can meet after his work.. OK if u far away from him make day by day meeting one day u go to him place and the another day he come to yr place... forget it not every day every 2, 3 days.. and so on... or deal with it.
2007-02-13 18:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by Neeboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are really only 2 options here...tell him you want to see each other more and see how he responds, or break up...its sad, but its not really a relationship if you never see each other.
2007-02-13 17:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hve a look at each others rotas a week in advance, fix a date and time and stick to it.
2007-02-13 17:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ya hunny myself i think that if he was areal boyfreind he would want to see you more than he is at present hunny . obviously you both work funny hours but he should at least make the effort to see you alittle more babe . dnt take this as being horrible babe but get yourself someone who you can see on a more permenant basis .
2007-02-13 17:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad you should see each
other in the night still there
is not mutch love there if
if you hAVE only seen each
oter twice in eight week's
2007-02-13 17:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by S Csparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are not willing to change your jobs then love is not important.
2007-02-13 17:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Tamart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋