tha prob is...i broke up wit him because he's gonna get married this year....plus...he' is kinda way older than me.....
he's still in love wit me....
wat do i do???
2007-02-13 09:16:54 · 6 answers · asked by utahhaze_reborn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the prob is.....i broke up wit him because he's gonna get married this year....
but i told that we could remain as frens,n he agreed....
then i found out,he's still hasn't got over me....
he keeps wanting to reconcile...
but im not ready and i dont think i ever will be....
tho deep down in my heart i still care for him....
wat do i do???
2007-02-15 17:34:54 · update #1
He shouldnt be getting married to this other girl if he's still hooked on you, its not fair on him or her... She will be thinking she is marrying the perfect guy but really he's thinking about another woman.. imagine if you were the girl he's marrying and she was you, you know you wouldnt be too happy about it, so i think i would be inclined to tell her whats going on. He is being very selfish to both you girls, she doesnt deserve to end up in a marraige that may likely end in divorce, and you dont deserve the guilt of being the possible reason. If he is older than you if you havent led him to believe that you may have feelings still for him too then tell him to get lost, you need to be cruel to be kind and in this case sounds like that may be your only option!! Good luck girl, you can do this. x
2007-02-21 08:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.... He's getting married, and I'm guessing not to you, right? then let's put it this way - he's going to marry the one he loves, so that would make you the girl on the side. Now gather up your self esteem, you said it, he's too old for you, keep your focus in school and move on. He does not love you because he's getting married to someone else. He just wants to keep the physical thing you both have going. Guys (and girls) can be dogs, but don't let them piss all over you. Seriously, if someone else described their situation to you the way you just did, would it sound like love?---NO.
2007-02-21 06:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you like to happen? Do you want this guy? If you still want him it might be hard for you to take advice. However, I'd advice you to make a clean cut here. Make up your mind, let him know your decision. I'd advice you to walk the other direction, as far as you can. Don't answer calls from him, don't let him pass messages to you through others, don't read emails from him. If the two of you are meant to be together, let him sort himself out first and give yourself a chance to get a better version of him. Good luck!
2007-02-13 09:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by kristofferalpsjo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely shut him out of your life. Erase his number from your phone. Don't call him, don't email him, don't initiate contact with him. If he contacts you, hang up without speaking to him or walk away.
You don't want to get involved with a married man -- especially an unhappy one. He needs to be honest with his feelings and then tell his wife that he's unhappy. Be glad that he's not your problem anymore -- he's his wife's problem now!
2007-02-13 09:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Leia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are not inlove with him, you need to do things to make it clear like change numbers, or stop hanging out where you guys normally hangout.
let him know that you are over him for sure
2007-02-13 09:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by lentini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait hes getting married?!?!
2007-02-21 08:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋