my brother has kicked with his steel toe boots
he tell me that that the god's wasted time making me
but im under his control like if he were to tell to jump over into the street i'd have or i would start to shake
2007-02-13 09:16:01 · 9 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you stand your ground...... don't let him hurt you....
you take up for yourself....... If you can survive the
beating...... then the little stuff don;t matter.... you
fight back..... with everything you have... no one should
beat you at all.... fight for yourself....please.....just
stand your ground....
2007-02-13 16:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT under his control. You do NOT have to do what he says, especially if it involves hurting yourself. Whatever he has told you to make you believe that is FALSE.
You have the right, and the responsibility to yourself, to make your own decisions. And the decision you have to make right now is if you are going to let your brother keep abusing you, or if you are going to do something to save yourself. He does NOT have any right to hurt you, kick you, or tell you what to do.
Go to your parents, your teacher, your school counselor/dean/principal, a police officer, any adult you feel you can trust. Tell them what your brother did, and about all the times he's hurt you or insulted you or tried to make you hurt yourself. Ask them to keep you safe from him, and make sure he gets the mental help he needs - he is seriously disturbed.
2007-02-13 17:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police. i might be wrong, but ur parents prolly know bout this, just pretend not to. am i right? but i'm serious. go to the police, then go to one on one therapy. it really helps. the group stuff sucks. ur brother just needs to go to an institution where they can help him, not a jail. that won't solve anything. so u just need the police's force. but make sure ur not exagerating, cause both u and him could get into a lot of trouble if this is really just nothing.
2007-02-13 17:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Whoareyou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old is he well i think u shud tell ur parents if they dont believe u go to a school consuler if they do nothing about it then u go to authorities i wish u luck and try not to make ur brother mad at u
2007-02-13 17:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by `*l T i f f a n y NEVESON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew because my brother does the exact same thing.
2007-02-13 17:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell your parents what he is doing to you. If they don't listen tell a teacher or someone else in authority.
2007-02-13 17:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let him get away with this tell every one and anyone ,but you better make sure your not striking him first
2007-02-13 17:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents what he does. Then, kick him in the nads, and I mean hard! As long as he thinks you're unable to defend yourself - he will continue to terrorize you.
2007-02-13 17:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg! thats kind of scary. Beat him back.
2007-02-13 17:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋