My ex broke up with me this Sunday, and I miss her alot. I love her extremely very much, like I could give the world to her...she broke up with me because she said she is "tired" I guess she means it emotionally...we argued alot over little things but we would always make up for it. Yesterday (monday) I took her to a place I've always wanted to show her and I expressed my feelings to her of how I want 1 last chance with her, I even started to shred tears for her, I told her how much I loved her and I tried to work things out but it didn't work. What else can I do? It's very hard to let go, but I have a slight feeling that things can be worked out...but I just don't know how to do it.
2007-02-13 09:09:39 · 22 answers · asked by racersiracer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she just needs a break. I'm feeling very emotionally tired in my relationship (we argue constantly) so I can relate. If that's the only reason she left you then give her some time, it may be all she needs.
2007-02-13 09:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Nina Lee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing for you to do, is to let her have her space. If she is feeling crowded or suffocated, she will run away even farther. Sometimes, you have to let things go and maybe on down the line, they come back to you. Just like any other disruption in life, it just takes time and maybe she will come around. If you keep on her, it just makes you look desperate and pathetic. Let her know that you are stronger than that and maybe she'll look at you in a different light. Besides, if you were having problems, maybe there's somebody else out there that might be better suited for you. Nobody's perfect, but compromise only works when it's both agreeable.
2007-02-13 09:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's probably too late because you have already shown her how you are.
You are acting like a woman, which is why she is breaking up with you. You are fawning over her and getting weepy and emotional. Men don't do this. Men take action and get stuff handled and don't give two hoots what their woman thinks of them.
You need an attitude shift. She's gone. Let go of it. It is over.
Now, that you are alone again, it's time to get to work. Stop being so whiny and start being a man.
Things can't work out - you have already killed any chance you have with her. Unless you showed up strong, confident, and completely okay with yourself, ready to stand up for what you are and what you believe in and no one, including your woman, can change that.
Then you're ready.
FP
2007-02-13 09:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you honestly because pretty much the same thing happened to me 6 months ago. I was with my ex for 5 years and he hurt me more because he asked to get back with me after two weeks then after me accepting he decided to pick up a girl in a club and let me witness it. Believe me hun you dont want to experience that! What you need to do is ignore her for around a month then bump into her or at least ask a friend how she is doing. If shes moved on then what you need to do is do the same, it will take a while to get over her but you will i promise you. Go out with your friends and let her know that your not sitting in moping around after her. Remind her what shes missing out on and enjoy yourself at the same time. Goodluck
2007-02-13 09:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Amy D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very worn out quote but as many quotes, it has a good message: "the easiest way to lose love is to hold on to it too tighly".
Through the years I have experienced that expressing your true love has to be with no strings attached.
Are you in love or in need? If you suspect you need her, think twice. If she's the right one for you, do your best to love her from the highest thought about yourself and her.
But most important of all, love yourself and your life. Share your joy with her. Be patient with her and yourself.
Good luck buddy.
2007-02-13 09:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by kristofferalpsjo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it can be worked out she will come around without coaxing... you pushing her will only make it worse... own up to your feelings, don't hide them or exaggerate them. Expect the worse and hope for the best. Nothing more you can do when a person has made up thier mind... time heals all wounds, but never takes away the scars.
2007-02-13 09:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jam Q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. But sometimes the best thing to do is to walk away. Get really active in your sports, reading, work projects. Pay lots of attention to yourself and what you need. The right thing isn't tons of work. It is a two way street. Whatever went wrong would keep going wrong.
Best of luck,
2007-02-13 09:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 09:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her jealous . parade around where she might hang out. take some of your guy Friends and act like your having the time of your life. or..if you dare, take out another girl ..make sure she knows it.she'll be calling you sooner then you know. who knows maybe its time to move on to some one who will appreciate your feelings . if she doesn't have a better reason other than she tired of the relationship then maybe she found someone else her self and shes letting you down easy. good luck
2007-02-13 09:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by vegas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're trying too hard. She doesn't want you to cry for her, generally girls want guys who are confident and sure of themselves. Even if you don't feel it, let her go. Perhaps she'll notice something missing in her life. If not, then things may not work out anyway.
"If you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, it was meant to be. If they don't, their love was never yours to begin with..."
It might be hard to get over them, but definitely, it can make you stronger. You should never have to grovel for someone's love.
2007-02-13 09:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋