What do you think?

Question

I hear my stepmom talk to one of her friends about me critising me, how i act daily, how i spend too much time on comp and how i dont spend with her although she tried and so on. Does this means she dont like me/ love me? Should i tell her that i heared this convo ?

Answer 1

You know parents need to vent just like kids do. I remember critisizing my mom and my step dad and them talking about me to their friends. I know have little children but I see myself doing the same thing. Talk to her and let her knowthat you want to try to have a relationship with her. Things will work out.

Answer 2

Son! Aki doesn't hate you, she just wishes you weren't so lazy and would do more than come home and sit under the stairs playing Starcraft on your computer. You don't ever say "How are you feeling." knowing she is eight and a half months pregnant with your little brother. Besides, you chose to live with dad for better or worse. Treat Aki the way you want to be treated and you two will get along great.
Love, Dad.

Answer 3

Question, does you running to YA with this question mean you don't love her?

Sounds like your step mom really does care for you a lot, but is having issues that needed a friends help. So she made a phone call and talked to her friend about it.

Sounds to me she would LOVE it if you told her you overheard the conversation and are worried that she does not love you. It might be a door that opens for both of your relationships.

Answer 4

i agree with most of the answers every one else has said seems you got a very caring step mom who wants to get to know you more and spend time with you but your making it hard by being on comp give her a chance you never know she could become your best friend good luck oh and if shes talking about you its because she cares

Answer 5

i dont think its because she doesnt love u or like u, as a mom shes probably just reaching out for help and dont know how to handle it. if i were u id let her know that u overheard her conversation and ask her what it means. hey if anything ur sitting down and talking to her and that will make her feel better im sure.

good luck

Answer 6

i think that if she didn't care for you or dislikes you she would not be concerned enough to ask questions furthermore you heard her tell the other she wants to spend more time with you so go ahead you never know you may enjoy it i say get out of the pity trip and share quality time with your family because it will bite you in your butt if something happens and you never found time to do so

Answer 7

You should talk to her to get the lines of communication open. She might be nervous about being a mother, and if she doesn't already have any kids, she might just be inexperienced at it. Give her a chance, and talk to her. You might end up having a great relationship!

Answer 8

Yes i think you should confront her and tell her about how you felt when you heard that. But dont go up to him with angier instead try a peaceful method and if that doesnt work out than ask your dad what does he think you should do

Answer 9

I wouldn't worry about it. I think most people vent about their family members from time to time and it certainly doesn't mean they don't love their family. I have a 14 year old son and I complain to my friends about how he's always on the computer, doesn't listen to me, etc.

Answer 10

Maybe she really does care about you, I guess you should talk to her. Have you tried to analyze your routine and your behavior to see if you are sharing enough time with all the members of your family?