There's this girl, and she has a boyfriend. Well her boyfriend majorly flirts with me (in our fith period, not in front of her). i have a lot of questions, but before i ask them, let me give you more info.
He ONLY asks me questions if he needs something or doesn't get an assignment. He'll start conversations with me. He also sometimes looks at my chest (if you know what i mean. fine i'll just say it, he looks at my breast sometimes). Sometimes, i'll even catch him looking at me, but when i look back at him, sometimes he'll look away, and sometimes he won't. He also says all sorts of negative things about his gf, like she's annoying. He also in a flirting manner taps my upper thigh and "by accident" slapped my butt with his folder a couple times.... He also makes me laugh all the time. And he's said that i was nice and one day i was wearing shorts. And he looked at them and teased me (playfully) he said "Dress code!"
1.does he like, like me?
2.if he does, why's he still/w his gf?
Additional Details
6 minutes ago
by the way HE FOUND OUT THAT I LIKED HIM ABOUT A WEEK AGO.
2007-02-13 08:48:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are alot of "it depends" factors. If you guys are kind of young, it may not be something serious. Also, if he's been with his girlfriend a long time, that might change his intentions.
1. Probably not. I hate to let you down but he's probably just bored with his current relationship and sees flirting with you as adventurous.
2. He probably still wants to be with his gf, but because he is still immature, he hasn't fully committed.
Besides, would you WANT this boy as a boyfriend when you've seen first hand that he may not be loyal?
2007-02-13 08:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by SaintsFan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, then I have some questions of my own.
1. How good is this "friendship" of yours that if you went out with her boyfriend would it matter that she wouldnt talk to you again?
2. Why is this kid so important? Is there no other guy in your school that you could go out with?
Anyways. I would say that from this info he likes you, but like I said, your friend wouldnt talk to you anymore so you'd have to see if it would really be worth it. If it is, then just ask him. If he's a man (or boy, since he sounds like he's about 16ish) then he'll say yes. Then ask him if he wants you or her. Otherwise leave it alone.
Speaking from experience, a guy will always be attracted to other women, no matter if they have someone or not. They might flirt, they would probably fool around given the opportunity, but if you really think about it, it's more of having an ace in the hole. If you have someone that you're not sure about, especially since he knows you like him, then he has someone else should it go wrong.
That's how I'd look at it, anyway.
2007-02-13 08:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's pretty possible that he DOES like you, but it really depends on what kind of guy he is. If he's had a couple girlfriends in a short amount of time, then maybe he's just a flirt. It also depends on how long he's been with his girlfriend. If it hasn't been that long, then maybe he doesn't want to break up with her yet, to spare her feelings. If it's been a while, then..........I don't know what to say about that. But if you have other classes with him, then notice how he acts around other girls. If he's acting the same way he has with you or even MORE flirty, then he probably is a flirt.
2007-02-13 08:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this before, and the answer is still the same. He's a jerk that doesn't mind flirting with girls besides his girlfriend.
He may "like" you, but it isn't the "LIKE like" you're thinking of and hoping for - it's more of the physical, "how much flirting and sex can I possibly get out of this girl without having to actually date her" type of like. He's flirting with you because he knows you like him, and figures you're an easy target.
He keeps his girlfriend around for the same reason - she gives him maximum benefit for minimum effort. All he has to do is call her his girlfriend and pretend to like her, and he can hook up with her and anyone else who will have him. Face it, some men don't mind lying.
Actions speak louder than words, honey - he's just not that into you if he has a girlfriend. His incessant flirting is a sign of his infidelity. You can do much better than a guy like this, stop looking for excuses to justify your crush on a cheater.
2007-02-13 09:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is interested in SEX with you. If he wanted more he would ask you. You must be a little hottie. Move on. You sound as if your smart enough to have some self esteem and common sense. He is still with his girlfriend because she puts out but he is getting bored with the same ole thing and is looking to explore. He will not give up a sure thing for a CHANCE to see what color your undies are.
2007-02-13 09:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mike E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..here is a question for you? How would you like to be his girlfriend right now...I mean the one he is essentially cheating on with you?
Here is another question for you? What is going to happen if you do "hook up" and then he gets tired of you and you become, "annoying." Oh he will be telling the next girl that about you.
And my last question is? How come you do not want a guy that is completely available?
Remember "what goes around comes around".
2007-02-13 08:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so now that he knows call his bluff, Time for him to make his move, or move on. But make sure he has broken it off with his gf before you have anything to do with him. Sounds like he enjoys playing the field. A bad habit if it gets established. Dont let your feeling lead to his success on that score
2007-02-13 08:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by wally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c he's a dog!! i was w/ this boy in high school that cheated on me. i was told he would flirt a lot when i wasn't around. stay away...he has g/f whether you like it or not. even if he breaks up with her, would you want him saying mean things about you like that?? think about it, b/c he might treat you the same.
2007-02-13 08:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by Essie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either acting like a playa and being super annoying
OR
he likes you, but is not mature enough to show it
Either way, he's ur friends GF. Tell her that he is doing this. If she doesn't believe you, its her loss.
If they breakup, DO NOT DATE HIM
2007-02-13 08:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by jaguargrrl27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely likes you and probably hasn't found a way to break up with his girlfriend.There's always the chance he wants to play both of you,be careful and don't put your heart into it until you know for sure.
2007-02-13 08:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋