I cheated on my girl friend again. I did it once before and she caught me. I had sex with another girl, but my gf forgave me and gave me a second chance. Well I did the exact same thing again with the same person, and she said that she forgives me but doesnt want to have a relationship with me now. She is mad at me.
The thing is, I KNOW that my gf was better then the girl i cheated and had sex with. I mean, she was funnier, had a better personality, was ALOT hotter, and like EVERYTHING about her was better. I already apolagized but what else can or should I do?
2007-02-13 08:47:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please no remarks on how its gross or wrong that I am a lez
2007-02-13 08:47:48 · update #1
You aren't ready for a relationship! If you were, you wouldn't have cheated!
2007-02-13 08:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's so great, why did you cheat on her? You need to work out your own problems before you bring another person into it that you can hurt...
I wouldn't give you a second chance, but you blew that one and now you're asking for a third chance? You should start to respect her and figure out why you're cheating before you even try to get back with her... and she probably won't have you.
2007-02-13 08:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really don't think you can do anything now! I mean, you cheated once, she forgave you and tried again... guess what - YOU DID IT!
I am sorry to say it, but you made this decision! It sounds like you need some help - you cheated with someone that was "less" than your girlfriend... and now want her back? Probably not going to happen!
SORRY!
2007-02-13 08:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by Glory 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Why should she forgive you once, let alone twice? There was really no excuse for you the first time...by repeating this offense, you've shown no remorse for your actions. You can say you're sorry, but you don't really mean it...you're only sorry that you got caught. It's a character issue on your part. You've established that her feelings and trust don't really matter. Nice, huh?
2007-02-13 08:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by woobinator 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you need to have a long,serious talk with your g/f and tell her what u put on your question becaus4e it shows that u would come online and ask that because you care!!!! and i think she deserves to know that.. and the fact your lez dosnt mean anything!! your human just like the rest of us!!! some ppl are just stupid 4 dissing bi's and lez's.... am i right? yes.
2007-02-13 08:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It doesn't sound like you are ready for a committed relationship. Let you ex be happy with someone else. If you are just friends, maybe you can be friends with benefits. If not, just let her go.
2007-02-13 08:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by jazzycat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say but you do not deserve her. He deserved to be with someone who sees all that in her before they loose it. You had to loose her to understand and I think she made the right decision on getting rid of you because it sucks you did it twice and with the same person. You and that other person deserve each other because you have no respect.
2007-02-13 08:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
why did you have the affair if you liked her more?
She has a right to be angry so give it some time.
Dont lose contat else she might forget you but dont push it because that will make her more angry
2007-02-13 08:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Maddy G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a 3 way or something is your GF in to that kind of stuff.
2007-02-13 09:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ha!
that's it! have it!
you're so open to every one!
and you've done it with the same person?
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i don't like you
2007-02-13 08:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Hello 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋