I like these girls who are shy, im a senior this year in high school and want to know whats some other people view this as. I like these two girls, one who is shy and afraid to tell me she also has feelings for me (from her friends i heard), but yesterday i made out with another girl and not sure because she is more of a physical releationship person. (no complaints with either girl). i may have asked this before but im trying to reword it.
2007-02-13 08:45:38 · 13 answers · asked by PETER Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and the question is?
Anyway I think you should break up with the other girl with whom you're more into physical, and come out to the one you really like. Just tell her, I don't know, walk with her to her home out of school or just ask her out. Tell her what you feel, just don't push her. Respect her, don't desperate if she says she needs some time to think about it. And if she knows about the other girl, explain to her that it was just something physical, you don't love that girl but her. Be nice!
2007-02-13 08:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by juivoinie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well It's hard to say because I don't know either of the girls at all but... if you want an actual relationship with a girl, not just a relationship to have fun and be physical with, tell the physical girl that and she'll be okay. It seems like she's just having fun and with just one time it's not that important anyways.
If I was you, I'd go with the shy girl. If her friends say she likes you then she probably does (only if they're her good friends you can trust though) especially if she flirts or is shy around you and it'll be a lot more worth your while in contrast with the other physical girl. If you only want a physical relationship, stick with the girl who isn't shy and don't lead the shy one on...
She may just be shy because she actually does like you and if you ask her out let her know that she'll be the only girl in your life. She wouldn't be okay with you making out or having feelings for other girls.
Plus if it doesn't work out, it could be easy to get back with the other less shy girl if you want to afterwards. If you go with the physical girl first instead and it doesn't work out, it would be harder to go out with the shy one afterwards.
So in a nutshell, I'd go for the shy girl if you're up for a serious relationship... and sorry I wrote so much but I hope it helps! :)
2007-02-13 09:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what type of relationship you want or even if you want one. Sometimes the outgoing girls are that way with ALL the guys. The shy one may be afraid all you want is to make out. Who knows?
2007-02-13 08:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Trish J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl that is overly physical is probably not the best bet cause she may be too pyshical with others if you know what I mean.The other one can't be straight with you,not to you face anyway.You need to pick one or is this an option?I'd not have either because it seems to me that this could be too much drama and having 2 girls hanging could cause you problems and give you a bad rap if they don't know about eachother and find out they being played.I don't think you should be with the girl that is pyshical because I don't know how old you are but any guy with a girl that is ready to get down immediatly is only setting herself up because once the chase is over you won't have anything to want.The other one needs 2 be straight with you 2 your face or I would get rid of both of them.
2007-02-13 08:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by kimmysue34 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm, I would say, since you're young, to go for both and have some fun with it. But if they are both in your high school then that could complicate things, unless you're really good. I would go for the one that would physically be more fun (be careful of course), because at your age you shouldn't be looking for anything serious anyway. That's my opinion.
2007-02-13 08:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by pip668 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your in High school. No need to get hooked up with any ONE person. Play the field but be honest about it. Ask the shy one out, something simple. If you like her and she wants to date you, ask her if you can ask her out again. Go from there. The one you said you made out with. If you like her, find out if she makes out with just anyone.
2007-02-13 08:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by psws_12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shy gurl might get a brocken heart from you, if you were honestly into either girl , than you wouldnt be so interested in another. i say date them..nicely let them know you are dating other people. then see which one you honestly have a great time with and can be totally real with.
2007-02-13 09:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jacquelyn V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for the girl you made out with! You will get more action (since that's what boyz want most)
2007-02-13 08:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Packer Fan 101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just stay with the one you're with, the other one may be teasing you (whatever her friends have said).
2007-02-13 08:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should prolly go with the physical relationship person.
2007-02-13 08:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋