black women with attractive white men,,black men with unattractive white women?

Question

im a black women who personaly love white men i see black women with desent or attractive white men but why do black men settel 2 date other races not just white women who are fat an or unatractive i hate seen black men settele for less!!! im posting this because my best friend is black an his gf is a fat mobile obeist white girl i ask him why u with her all he had to say is i dont know lol i slaped him lol like stop settleng if u gonna date outside your race dont offend us black women by daten other races that are not in no way attractive if u dont love them i date only sexy white men i still love black men in a way tho!!
----mixed attractions love

and please dont take offence to this topic

Answer 1

I'm a white male and I love Black women. I have dated black women exclusively since I was 19 (9 years) but I only date the CREAM OF THE CROP. I know what you mean though because I see black men with gross white girls. Its not just about being fat though, because there are some fat women who look nice and take care of themselves (I just wouldn't date them...sorry). But aside from weight they date the dirtiest, ugliest, trashiest white women lol. I have seen some that date the nice looking white women (they are usually the black guys with money). But in general they tend to date unattractive or otherwise questionable white girls. Maybe it has to do with social or financial status. I think maybe those are the white girls that are willing to date black men who are in that social or economic bracket. Idk maybe those guys take what they can get some say "as long as its white its right." (I say if its not black its WACK.) But I agree that it is an insult to black girls especially the sexy single ones. When I was in college there were some beautiful intelligent black women there and most seemed to be single. All of the black guys were with "non black" women who couldn't hold a candle to some of those black chicks. There are some beautiful, sexxxy, and intelligent black women out there. Maybe those guys can't get the good black women so they choose a trashy white one instead idk. I've heard that they think black girls have attitude. None of the black girls I've been with had attitudes. They've all been sweet and kind women they just won't put up with the bullshit.

Conscientious Sister. None of the black women I've dated have issues with their race. They just wanted a good man that complimented them intellectually, socially, and financially and color was irrelevant. My girlfriend of 2 years has a MS in accounting and she makes over 100k a year at the age of 26. I have a MBA from one of the top schools in the country and I make 150k at 28. When I was 23 I was already making 65k right out of school. When a woman at that level is looking for a man, she doesn't want a dude with a baby mama, or a record, or someone who can't keep up with her socially or financially. And unfortunately most of the black men at that level don't want black women no matter how beautiful they are, that leaves those black women with few black men to choose from. Why should she settle for any man just because he is black? She met me and I was perfect for her, I just happened to be white.
I treat my woman like a queen and worship the ground she walks on. If that makes me weak then so be it. What is your idea of a strong man? One who cheats, won't marry you, can't keep a job? To me being strong is treating your woman with respect and taking care of her emotionally, financially, and physically. Believe me, my girl wouldn't have it any other way.
With all of your loyalty to Black men, how loyal are they to you? I think kanye said it pretty well, "When he get on he'll leave your *** for a white girl."

Answer 2

Big girls need love too. Does it ever occur to you that maybe these men get with these women because they love them for who they are, and not what they look like. Just because someone is better looking doesn't make them better for the other person. There are good looking, and not so good looking in every race. The not so good looking people should be able to attract and have who they want also. I really don't think it's anyone's business except theirs. If you only date good looking white guys then that's fine, but don't put down big white women. Some big women of any race have some of the most beautiful personalities. Worry about yourself, and live your own life. I'm not trying to be rude or offensive to you. I'm just stating my own opinion just like you did.
I'm a black female by the way.

Answer 3

Lots of white women are unattractive nowadays,fewer and fewer white supermodels can be seen in Eurasia and Americas.
Hot white men are fewer than hot white women.

Answer 4

I am white and dated a black gal now for 12 years. I have talked to some of her brothers that dated and or married white women. The brothers seem to prefer the hotties but will take anything they can get. IN their eyes any lovin is good lovin be that it from big momma or little hottie. Besides they also claim the homely and biggie women give more to keep them. Besides you see plenty of white petite gals with playas skinny men.

Answer 5

Fact from fiction, truth from diction. As an African American male I have wondered about that myself. While I see some Black men with stunning white gals you would think they would never have a chance with, I see slightly more with, as you say, those 280lb plus cows. Some I have had the chance to conversate with on the subject is "she pay like she weigh".That these wide body dump trucks treat them right because they are just happy to have ANY male give them some attention without them having to give up their 3 boxes of Twinkies diet. But many of the guys I spoke with also have ANOTHER more attractive girl on the sly. The one they take out when it really matters like the club, dinner etc.

I know many will not agree and I will take flax for saying it,but I have read it many times from not only while but Black authors. The white guys is more incline to get a Black woman who is very pretty because socially she adds nothing to his package. So, to be half way worth the effort, she had better be an 8.5 or better. Those who settle on less go off the myth that Black women are tigers in the bed room and could suck a bowling ball thought 10 feet of garden hose.

Be he Chinese, Black, French, Tongan, Russian, or Hispanic. No man should settle on having a 135+ woman unless he like whale hunting or cow riding.

Answer 6

I am a black woman and I think that white men are absolutely gross and would never disrespect my womb by allowing a white man into me. White men are weak by nature and can not compare to a black man mentally or physically. Sisters that date black men are often times either very dark skin and have issues with it, grew up around too many white people, or have had horrible situations with black men that has caused them to look for love else where rather then being patient and waiting for REAL love with the right brother. Black men date white women because many of them believe that white women are better but turn around and say they are proud black men in the same sentence. Some of these black men be fawning from the mouth for non-black women like savages and it shows you how messed up mentally black people of both sexes are. We are not beyond help though.

Answer 7

this is the most hypocritical ignorant thing ive ever read. congratulations. you obviously have **** for brains.