heard at strip clubs the stripper rubs her naked self all over the guys body isn't that cheating?
how could guys think that's not cheating?!?! when your with someone you can only have physical contact sexually with that person (for all you guys who don't think it's cheating i'd like to see a male stripper rub his dick & hot body all over your gf) and how could they do it if their about to get married or are in a relationship ?
2007-02-13 08:39:52 · 14 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is cheating.
Cheating basically implies that you get sexual pleasure from someone other than the person you're with.
That being said, tell me this:
How is going to a strip club not getting sexual pleasure from someone else? Just because you're not touching back doesn't mean it's any less hurtful.
2007-02-13 08:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by Basiate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my best friends was a stripper for a few years and most strip clubs have pretty strict rules about how much the girls can touch you, how much you can touch them, etc...and the rules are really enforced. Plus it's public - it might be different if he was in a hotel room with some naked chick, but it was a strip club. It's uncomfortable for you to picture, but I don't really think it's cheating.
2007-02-13 16:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Diggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating...the stripper may be naked, but the man isn't...and you would have to be some kinda superman to be able to have sex with clothes on and oral sex isn't possible in a strip joint cuz trust me if a guy puts his hand on a stripper in any inappropriate fashion he'll lose his whole arm when the bouncer jerks it to put him out of the club...
2007-02-13 16:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not really as bad as you think- the men are not allowed to touch the girls, and most places aren't completely nude anyway. PLUS- it's not like the stripper likes ANY of the men she's dancing for! It's a job to her and they are the paycheck- she doesn't give them a second thought after they hand over the $20.
I don't think it's cheating. You should go with your man and see for yourself.
2007-02-13 16:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's cheating. If your boyfriend were an actor and had to kiss other women at work would you feel that was cheating?
I think dancers, like actors get paid for what they do. It's just a job, not an adventure.
Lighten up on the guy, it's all in good fun.
2007-02-13 16:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not only cheating; it's also disgusting and downright degrading. Truth to the fact is, many guys out there will do lots of sexual stuff along those lines and will look for a cop-out of some kind, just so they can say(albeit wrongly) that it isn't cheating. Cheating occurs anytime somebody does something sexual with someone other than his/her significant other. And it doesn't have to necessarily involve breasts, buttocks, or genitalia to qualify as sexual.
2007-02-13 16:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not cheating. The guys are not allowed to touch the girls and unless they meet up later theres no cheating. Its insecure to feel threatened by this kind of thing.
2007-02-13 16:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I don't agree with you, I don't consider it cheating. I look at it more as a joke, but maybe that's because I trust my husband and am secure in our relationship and know that just because he sees another woman's naked body doesn't mean he has to do anything with her.
2007-02-13 16:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX.........
Its not cheating, it's a safe alternative!
I send my honey to the strip clubs with his buddies, at least a few times a year.
Yes, he does have it good, he could have ended up with an insecure chick...like you.
You probably think swinging is bad too! LOL
2007-02-13 16:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its not cheating unless my peepee goes in her thingy, hey what about guys that go to the strip club with their wife, im not married but i go sometime with my friend and his wife and shes usually the first one to get a lap dance, i guess it just depends
2007-02-13 16:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋