There's this girl, and she has a boyfriend. Well her boyfriend majorly flirts with me (in our fith period, not in front of her). i have a lot of questions, but before i ask them, let me give you more info.
He ONLY asks me questions if he needs something or doesn't get an assignment. He'll start conversations with me. He also sometimes looks at my chest (if you know what i mean. fine i'll just say it, he looks at my breast sometimes). Sometimes, i'll even catch him looking at me, but when i look back at him, sometimes he'll look away, and sometimes he won't. He also says all sorts of negative things about his gf, like she's annoying. He also in a flirting manner taps my upper thigh and "by accident" slapped my butt with his folder a couple times.... He also makes me laugh all the time. And he's said that i was nice and one day i was wearing shorts. And he looked at them and teased me (playfully) he said "Dress code!"
1.does he like, like me?
2.if he does, why's he still/w his gf?
2007-02-13 08:35:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way HE FOUND OUT THAT I LIKED HIM ABOUT A WEEK AGO.
2007-02-13 08:41:51 · update #1
LOL. And he talks bad about YOU to his girlfriend when you are not around. You already answered both your questions. He does not "like" like you. Of course, he doesn't "like" like his girlfriend either. Unless by "like" like you just mean he wants to play you to see how far he can get.
2007-02-13 08:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Phil H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you catch him looking over at your and he looks away he's trying to figure out if he likes you and does he like you enough to date you. Second he may be flirting because you are helping with missed assignments and school. What better way to breeze through boring classes then flirt with a girl and make her think you like her.
2007-02-13 08:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by GoodWillHunt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a situation that can allow you to grow wise and increase in maturity. You cannot trust someone who lacks a sense of honor as evidenced by his talking disrespectfully of the girl he is dating. He is being disrespectful of you by his inappropriate touching and is using you only to get help with his assignments. If you allow yourself to succumb to shallow flattery, you always will be a "target" of men who won't respect you and will use and abuse you. Learn to conduct yourself with dignity and to respect yourself enough that you will be able to set appropriate boundaries. There is an old saying: "A lady is someone in whose presence a man acts and feels like a gentleman." This is how women protect themselves from unsavory relationships.
2007-02-13 09:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's treating his girlfriend the way you say, why would you want him? Sure he's witty, but not very honest if he's being sneaky. You shouldn't waste your time. Don't mistake flattery, for just wanting to get in your pants. He shouldn't be touching you at all. He's trying to see what your response is to the playful little pats. It's disrespectful no matter how you look at it. I'm old enough to know.
2007-02-13 08:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by kayjay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he does like you. i think the reason that he is still with his gf is that maybe hes scared that you wont be with him or something. maybe he is trying to tell you not to be like his gf if he ever considers being with you. why dont you just ask him those two questions one day that you two are in class. whats the worst he can do? at least you will know you tried and not wonder, "what if?"
2007-02-13 08:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by starstatus586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellm it could be that he's not sure what he and his g/f have and is looking for someone else that makes him happy and that person is you. but he doesnt know if he should break up with his g/f and start something with you. If anything ask him how he and his g/f are and whats going on with that. Really pay attention to how he asks and what he says about them
2007-02-13 08:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmin C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys just always flirt with girls it is their nature ignore him
2007-02-13 08:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kayley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really likes you... REALLY likes you! I think he's still with his gf because he's afraid. Good Luck!
2007-02-13 08:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋