Does she still love me???

Question

Ok my girlfriend and i have been going out for about 2 months now. I know its not that long, but we have clicked really well and we both tell each other that we love each other everyday. She always tells me that she wants to be together forever and she wants to get married and have a family. Well, this morning she was acting wierd on the phone and i asked her what was wrong. She said nothing. I knew better so i kept prying. Well, she told me that she didnt know what was wrong but she was confused. I asked her if she was confused about her feelings and she said yes. She said she didnt know what was wrong but she didnt know if she loved me anymore. She started to cry and all she would say was she didnt know what was wrong. Well, i gave her a little space, but i kept telling her i loved her...she didnt say anything back. I figured she was done with me. Then i called her back a little later on, and i asked her if we were over. She said "Well, i guess so.............................

I started crying. I couldnt help it. We talked for a little bit about it, then i asked her again and she said that we should just forget the whole thing and keep going out??


Is she just saying that because she felt sorry for me? Or does she really still love me. She keeps telling me that she is dumb and that she doesnt know why i took her back cause she was acting really stupid. She says she made the right decision to stay with me....but i dont know if i should believe her or not...

Please Help!!!!

Answer 1

Move on, at this point it wasn't really love in the first place it was just the excitement of a new relationship, she got wrapped up in the newness and accidentally said she loves you. Anything more from this relationship now would just be weird, quit making her feel guilty and move on. Sounds to me like she has someone else on the line, just by the way she was acting that morning.

Answer 2

i'd give her space. she's obviously confused about SOMETHING. if you didn't see this coming, maybe something happened. did she cheat? did you do/say anything different to her? don't "keep going out" when 5 seconds before she wanted things to end. it's not healthy and you'll be miserable because you'll both have that akwardness, insecurity, etc. maybe you both need to think. 2 months is a really short time to say i love you. maybe she was freaked.