That's a really problem to me, he is really a good man but the time that he says a lovely word is too muc h,like yesterday he is so romantic today isnot even tomorrow isnot, are men like that?
2007-02-13 08:16:46 · 8 answers · asked by sarah5 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, this is so like my husband and me! It used to upset me, I thought that because he wasn't expressing sentimental mush all the time, meant that he didn't feel that deeply for me, but it is so not the case. I adore my husband and respect the differences between us and the way we express ourselves. Sometimes you have to look for the smaller gestures which mean more than the big, effusive declarations. It's easy for any phoney to tell you he loves you, or send flowers and chocolates. It takes love and understanding to make the little personal gestures that mean so much more and show that he loves you.
2007-02-13 08:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything to make him romantic really. I had the same problem with my boyfriend. Tell him that you like the romantic stuff. He might get the hint that it's is important to you and try to make more of an effort. I let my boyfriend know and now he tries a little harder, but it's not an everyday thing. If he's worth it to you, you'll learn to live with the imperfections and enjoy the times he is romantic. Its what we had to do and now things are better than ever. Hope things work out.
2007-02-13 08:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. Some men are too embarrassed to be romantic in public. Is he like this in private?
The very nature of romantic is to blow hot and cold as it a subjective emotional experience.
IMHO the fact that he is a good man is something you should cherish over vague and superficial romantic gestures.
2007-02-13 08:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by Aslan, reborn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a person change, but you can accept that he doesn't like mushy cheesy stuff... a lot of people dont, including me... and you can't change that about me at all, no matter how hard you try, but you can accept it... so do the same for him or find someone else if it's going to be a problem for you.
2007-02-13 08:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men are like that so accept that. u can probably get around that by subtly letting him know waht u like. hopefully he will pick up the hint. i did this and it worked.
2007-02-13 09:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we'll, you cant change him but maybe you can, show him,tell him what you want and maybe, "he" will try but the only thing you can do is hope, sorry,, your just going to have to train him. lol lol and this from a guy? it help my dad and mom
2007-02-13 08:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He is a really good man" and just like the rest of us, not entirely perfect. If you look for faults they become all that you see.
2007-02-13 08:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Finbarr D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is not a romantic, simple.
2007-02-13 08:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋