I know girls love confidence in guys even if they are just watching them in a public place or wahtver. But what does this confidence mean to u? What sort of things does he do or how does he act.
2007-02-13 08:12:18 · 18 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's easier for me to explain an insecure guy.
An insecure guy just seems nervous a lot, looks down when you talk to them or they shift around. They just look uncomfortable. Sometimes they are too eager to please. They will agree with everything you say. He puts himself down a lot fishing for compliments. They just put out an "I'm desperate" kind of vibe.
A confident guy is just himself. He doesn't feel the need to impress you all the time. He's not afraid to express his opinion.
It's probably a lot similar to a confident woman. I can't really explain what he does or doesn't do, it's just the vibe you get from them.
2007-02-13 08:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confidence is only good in a guy to a certain degree. Eventually, it will just appear to other people that he is arrogant and self-centered. However, a certain level of confidence says "Hey, I know what I want and I'm not afraid of anything." Basically, girls love a guy who can walk into a room and give off and air of "owning the place." It also gives us a sense of stability. If a guy knows what he wants, then he's not going to spontaneously change on us. He's going to stay the same no matter what because he's happy the way he is.
2007-02-13 08:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good question. Confidence has many angles. Does the guy respect himself and others around him. Is he sure enough to carry himself with dignity ? Is he comfortable in his own skin? Does he take pride in his appearance? Is he capable of being proud but humble at the same time? Does he use good manners on special occasions only, or is that a part of his daily composite? Young and old, is he savvy enough to treat all women with a bit of chivalry. Does he do the right thing when it would be easier not to ? Is he capable of differentiating between making love and having sex? The confident man makes his statement with attitude, in the way he carries himself, and the positive impression he leaves with others when he makes both an entrance and an exit. He is solid. Many guys have it and don't even realize it. Many think they have it but miss the boat completely .
2007-02-13 08:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a guy who isnt shy
but not a guy whos too aggressive either
i want a guy whos confident enough to ask me out or talk to me without fearing rejection
i understand its hard to just randomly go up to a gir but i approach guys that i like so i want a guy who would to the same to me
Confidence isnt the only thing i look for in a guy, nor will i completely rule him out if hes not too confident, but it can be a plus
It took my boyfriend over a month to ask me out and now we've been together for 2 and a half years..so dont think youll never get a girl if youre not confident
2007-02-13 08:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
confidence is the way you feel about yourself some women girls can tell when a dude/guy is totally not into his own solitude, his own groove and is totally uncomfortable with his own self ya know, we all women/girls want the guy that doesn't care what others think on his clothes his bank account his friends his hangouts his own personality of inner beauty shines out and that is what every woman wants what every young girl wants...Myself I want a man that is soft sensitive romantic polite and will take advice also someone that is his own man...24/7
I myself personally see you with someone that is totally into you not just says she is but is ya dig...Take be a hard rock when you are gem a diamond in the rough so to speak!
Peace out gotta bounce now! Be cool!
2007-02-13 08:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by KENYA J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok obviously everyone wants to have confidence but personally i don't look for confidence in guys... it can also make them look a bit full of themselves and this is so not attractive. i like guys who are a little on the shy side...so basically if you lack confidence don't change yourself for anyone.. cos there IS someone out there for EVERYONE.. the person you truly are!
2007-02-13 08:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Shaza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pre-wired into their mating desires, much like finding a guy with a muscular build and healthy looking because when a guy can prove he is outgoing, he has proven to be the alpha male among other males who shy away or seem uneasy around them.
2007-02-13 08:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man who knows who he is and isnt afraid of showing it is confident. If you are a romantic at heart and your buddies call you a pussy.... BUT you keep acting the same way and not care what they say..... THATS confident...
2007-02-13 08:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by nease174 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am probably old fashioned, but I like my man to take care of me, be my hero, my support. A needy, worry some, in-confident man can't offer these things. I love a "take-charge-don't-worry-everythings-gonna-be-all-right" kind of guy.
2007-02-13 08:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it means that they have faith in themselves and know what they are made of, lol. when guys are confident, it shows, and it looks good. i guess it comes of as appealing cause girls know that if a guy has confidence in himself, he will not be pushed around by other guys, and that he can stand up for himself as well as for us.
2007-02-13 08:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋