I 'm just so tired of the degenerates that I have been meeting and I want to be with a man that desires me and at least hides the fact that he is attracted to one of my friends.
2007-02-13 08:08:35 · 20 answers · asked by southern sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think in our generation, men have just been surrounded by models and one night stands. Try changing your 'meeting' places. If you usually meet guys who are like this in bars, try going to different places. Check your local entertainment for anything other than pubs and clubs. Wherever you go, enjoy yourself. You are more likely to meet a better guy if you are relaxed and generally having a good time. Don't try too hard. Good luck
2007-02-13 08:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want way too much! It is grown up time for grown up people. If you want a real relationship (that includes the good with the bad) you must understand that men look and are attracted to other women. I am married and I look all the time and attracted to many women, but I love my wife not them. You have to meet a man who loves you, likes you and respects you. That will help build the faithfulness that you desire, but it doesn't work if you are constantly dealing with an inferiority complex because your man happened to notice that your friend has big boobs or looks exceptionally beautiful in a thong bathing suit.
2007-02-13 16:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. None of my best freinds (That I know of) have cheated on their wives. Only one of them cheated on his girlfreind...
Not that I don't know of men cheating...
The point I'm trying to make, you're running with the wrong crowd... Don't know where you are getting your men, but birds of a feather flock together.
So if they've cheated before, cheated with you on their spouse/girlfreind, then they'll cheat on you.
As far as the don't look at other women. Any man that says he doesn't look at other women is a liar (In my book, maybe I'm running with the wrong crowd. LOL)
Yes, we should do it discreetly. But I think it's natural. And just so you know, we look at all women. Not just the pretty ones. We may not like what we see but we still look.
Look is not chasing after. Look is not getting phone numbers. Look does not mean lust. It can. I've got a co worker who can't shut up about who he wants at work...
But for most decent honest men, looking is just looking.
Good luck.
A~
2007-02-13 16:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yawn! I'm tired of this sort of question. Men like p*ssy and will take any that's going. A man may love a woman, but when it's offered else were it's deep within a mans gene's (and his jeans) to go get some. It will never change. From caveman to the end of the world it will always be the same.
Fact of life.
A man say's 'I'm not like that' or 'I've never chaeted' or' I'll never do it behind your back'....thats cr*p. It's male instinct to get his booty on with anything thats not nailed down.
2007-02-13 16:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by trickyrick32 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you need an attitude adjustment, the kind of guy you want to meet knows that it is not right to check out another woman in the presence of his girl friend.You need to think about the kind of guy you want and DO NOT SETTLE.If your dating someone and he disrespects you, launch him. Don' t be a b----, just make it well known that you respect yourself and you will not tolerate any sh--. Confidence regardless of looks has it own appeal. Be up beat and self confident and you will attract the perfect mate. Good luck.
2007-02-13 16:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep yourself available. It took me a long time to find my bf and I just can't see him ever cheating. I don't care if he's attracted to other women - I personally have a couple of country music artists that I think are hot. He and I just both know that looking is fine - just no touching.
2007-02-13 16:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is that if you find a man that's unlikely to cheat on you chances are he's all about football, beer and the lads and doesn't have time for women, including you - take it from one who knows - or he'll be so nice that he's too nice and you'll get bored!!
2007-02-13 17:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I totally agree. There has got to be a guy out there that will treat you right and not be such a dog. If a guy is gunna do that he is not worth your time. I mean they cant all be dogs can they ?
2007-02-13 16:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by alwaysperfec237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not the men; its the men you are choosing.
You're a loser magnet. Stop meeting men in cliche places and change up where you usually meet guys.
2007-02-13 16:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're either picking the wrong guys or giving out the the wrong signals yourself. MAybe the guys think you dont mind xxxxxx
2007-02-13 16:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by starlet108 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋