okay wat is the best way to tell youre boyfriend he is not satsifyin u in the bed?

Question

please be specific wit hay answers!! i am gettin tired of my boyfriend not givin it t ome!!! i cant even ge tan orgie!! but antiways how do i break the news to him in a nice way?

Answer 1

Nice isn't the way! Brutal honesty is the key! Tell him the truth and tell him what he can do to make your enjoyment heightened! But this beating around the bushes is never the answer.

Answer 2

Don't do the 3 some thing it can cause problems if your not OPEN about it. Next time he's in the bedroom and your getting in the mood "TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT"! It's that easy... Be Specific,, its a turn on to be direct.. Guide him to your spot verbally and use your hands to show him how you want it. Men don't always know our bodies the way we like to be pleased. PLEASE don't tell him.. "You're not doing it for me" Ouch, how about if he told you that? That approach will just open the window for a fight! Its not worth it! Just say it, straightout. And Good luck! Don't listen to the guy above me..

Answer 3

in a POSITIVE way, suggest trying some "new" things...make it sound like you want some more adventure, not because he's not satisfying you. if you insult him, it will put too much pressure on him and sex will become frustrating for both of you. get some toys or some outfits, anything you think will spice things up, and tell him you want to be creative! good luck.

Answer 4

Bring another woman into the bedroom. Might want to get a vibrator or dildo or "The Rabbit" (My wife's personal favorite to use on another woman). Trust me, once you and the other woman get started with each other (and women really know how to please women) your boyfriend will be very appreciative. Might even record so you'll have the video to enjoy together any time you want. E-Mail and let me know how it goes.

Let me know how it goes.

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Answer 5

There is no need to tell him that he is not giving you want you want in bed, perhaps you should start by telling him what you do want. You know.. tell him what feels good and what doesn't.. communicate more..

Do just tell him he is bad because that will make things worse. Perhaps more foreplay and bringing toys into things might help.

Good luck

Answer 6

Baby, you know I really care about you and I love having sex with you but lately there's been something missing. I would love it it you did __________ to/for me.

Have you tried being on top of him. Instead of going up and down on him, do what I call the slide. Sit on top of him, with your legs folded on each side of his hips and slide back and forth across his pelvis while he is inside of you. This is a great position to stimulate your g-spot and your clitoris at the same time.

Answer 7

either get a naw boy friend or you you could try some of those love games, like what they have at spencer gifts. maybe even watch some porn together but you better watch it first to make sure its what you want. how well do you get along otherwise? my first answer may be the best one if he is unwilling to please you.because he is able, he just needs to learn how.

Answer 8

Dont even try to fake orgasm. Tell him what you want him to do during sex. ways that can make you more horny.He would get more excited thatn offended. More practice should do it.
i dont think he cant satisfied you, it just you are not getting the way you want.

Answer 9

i am assumeing you arent getting off and he is. when he is done, roll over and get yourself off by hand or use a vibrator. he should get the hint or at least open the door for conversation. no man wants to be replaced by a machine

Answer 10

It doesnt matter how you say it...he will be crushed...I say tell him he has to pick up his pipe laying skills or its over. get the guy some movies to watch and learn from or better yet...TELL him what he is or is not doing that isn't working for you.