i've only been going out with my boyfriend for about a month, but i have really strong feelings for him. i've never been so happy in my life. he's such an amazing guy. i've never been in love, and i don't know what it would feel like to be in love. i don't know if i love him, but if or when i know i am, how long should i wait to say it to him?
2007-02-13 07:59:32 · 10 answers · asked by north shore cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told my now husband, about 5 or 6 months into the relationship. I felt at that time I had really gotten to know him better as more than just my friend.
Love really takes time....its not so much a feeling but more of an action. It' like him taking the trash out when he doesn't feel like it...or you cooking him a meal when you've had a long day and are tired.
2007-02-13 08:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Angela W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him guessing about the love part. Hug him lots!!!I am a guy and , trust me if there is one thing I like best (more than i love you) is a meaningful hug. A emotional one. That sends good signals. In about a month or so you can start saying I love you. Then he will know that you really do and you not just in love with the idea of being in love. Hope this helps and ............god your lucky to have someone you love . Bet its a good feeling. Share it with him though. Love has to work both ways for it to be really love.
2007-02-13 08:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a month is a little to soon to be feeling like you're in love. It's very easy to confuse lust with love epecially since you've never been in love before. Make sure you know how you feel about him first. Once you say those three little words you can't take it back.
2007-02-13 08:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Vivi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all it is very hard to tell if you love someone after a month.
Next, you shouldn't tell him you love him until you are 100%sure. If it has only been a month you may scare him away. He may not be ready to hear it and if you really care about him that is the last thing you want to do is scare him away.
2007-02-13 08:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would just know and when you tell him don't expect him to tell you it back! Make sure you know what you are doing! Love is dangerous and can hurt!
2007-02-13 08:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tricee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT UNTIL HE SAYS IT FIRST!!!
Play a little hard to get. Don't put your feelings on the line first.
Good luck
A~
2007-02-13 08:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you know for sure that it's love, tell him.
2007-02-13 08:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in tell him that before i go 2 bed everyday
2016-03-29 05:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you wainting, just do it and tell him i love you honey.
Dont be shy he is love with you too.
2007-02-13 08:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by Johnnyboy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you'll just know...trust me
2007-02-13 08:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋