I have an acquantance who has been flirting with me and trying to get me to have sex with him for months. We are not really friends , and he has been very persistent. Oh, by the way he is engaged. If I give in to his charms, do you think he will continue to pursue me or just consider it a fling and get married.
2007-02-13 07:48:41 · 23 answers · asked by gerber baby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the guy is a really hot firefighter. should i just go ahead and do it?
2007-02-13 07:49:59 · update #1
Be a woman! kick him in his groin.
Report him or threaten to report him to his fiance
2007-02-13 07:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a dirtbag hound dog. Hello, do you respect yourself? If for some reason you give in, you'll be another notch in his belt and that will give him bragging rights!!! So what, he's firefighter. You will only be a fling, and then you'll be left in the cold. I would stay away, and break all communication. Treat yourself right, and love yourself. Be smart.
2007-02-13 07:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kadesmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I tihnk he is just looking for some ***. Defintely a fling. The guy is getting married. Even if you are amazing in bed, he will probably still go back to his future wife. If it were me, I would not do it. I have way to much self- dignity and respect to let a guy I don't evne know knock me up, evne if he is sexy.
2007-02-13 07:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need that for? If you not going to get attached to him emotionally then what you waiting for? Now if you really into him and you seem like you really like him sex might get you all messed up and you might wont be able to stop just at that, because believe me its just a fling....if he is engaged ....he is pretty much married dog.
2007-02-13 07:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From my perception, you are just a fling to him before he ties the knot. He wants to spread his royal oats. Don't give in.
2007-02-13 08:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you were engaged and the guy was pursuing another woman and especially if he slept with her? This guy obviously has no respect himself, and he certainly has no respect for you. He doesn't respect his fiancee either but he respects her more than you. She has the ring, not you. Show him that YOU respect yourself, and tell him to get lost.
2007-02-13 07:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is Engaged. Hello sweety.. that's already your answer. He is a dog, looking to bury his bone in a nice hole. Watch out sister!
2007-02-13 07:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes looking for one last fling, put yourself in his gf shoes...
2007-02-13 07:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know him, so I can't say what his intentions are. Maybe you can break up the engagement and have him all to yourself. Would that make you happy and proud of yourself?
2007-02-13 07:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by true blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a fling... whatever you decide to do, base it on knowing that for a fact.
2007-02-13 07:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by selena n 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
definatly it would just be a fling
a lot of men do that just before they get married
i mean a lottt
dont do it he'll just end up getting married and leaving you alone.
not good !
2007-02-13 07:51:22 · answer #11 · answered by Maddy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋