When me and my girlfriend first started dating a couple months ago, she thought I was the greatest guy she ever met. The only problem is I've let myself get insecure thinking things were too good to be true and now she's picked up on that and I know that insecurity is the kiss of death in a girl's eyes. I've tried to talk about it, but she says I'm being too dramatic and making a big deal every time we have a disagreement, which makes me seem even MORE insecure. It seems like she's not happy with me and we don't have any fun anymore (she even turned her claddagh ring around to have the heart facing outward again). But still she hasn't broken up with me or even said that she wants to (even though she thinks we're on different relationship levels). Could she still be holding out hope that we can go back to the way things were? Or is there probably no chance I can turn this around?
2007-02-13 07:42:30 · 8 answers · asked by Keyser Soze 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure if anyone will figure out what you mean by her claddagh ring, but if she has turned it around, she's looking around.
She's either done it to get a reaction out of you, or is truly looking. Stop being so insecure; she was with you for a reason. Stand up for yourself.
If not, she'll be turning the ring around again, but it won't be for you this time.
2007-02-13 07:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if she still loves you and still is willing to work out the issues in your relationship. I think you should listen to what she said "stop being too dramatic". I feel you are anticipating something that is not gonna happen. A breakup will only happen if you continue to put needless negative pressure into this relationship. Try and be a more positive person and enjoy the time you are with her. Best of luck to you!
2007-02-13 07:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look sweety take care coz maybe she is trying to find a way to go far of u and trying to find a guy to cheat on u.so broke up u before her.
2007-02-13 08:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she still wants you and i know you still want her. you should just try to calm down and start again instead of being insecure
2007-02-13 07:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Go Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her and wanna be with her you should try to make things work out and talk to her about what you have been feeling lately
2007-02-13 07:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Bbita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want her to leave you? If so, man up and break it off. If you don't want her to leave you, ask where you two are and where you see yourselves in one month from now, and then one year from now.
2007-02-13 07:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by YE_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to propose these questions to her but you should prepare for answers you don't want to hear from her as well.
2007-02-13 07:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have all your answers right in front of you....ask her buddy. and then live with her answer.
2007-02-13 07:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by CHELAKIKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋