my bf doesn't really care
we haven't seen for 2 weeks i want to send more time with him but he would rather hang with the guys and drink a beer
he is not seeing anybody on the side
what should i do?
ignore him a little?
2007-02-13 07:42:18 · 6 answers · asked by fifi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him and find someone who cares. He's not worth your energy.
2007-02-13 07:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by selena n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He's not interested anymore
2) He's not mature and doesn't want to be
3) Dump him
It's sad. Maybe he started a relationship with someone he really didn't love. Maybe he already got what he wanted.
but it's obvious that he doesn't care about you. I know it hurts. But you are better off this way. Dump him. Don't let him back in. He'll only hurt you more.
Chalk it up as expereince. You'll grow wiser and know what to look for in a man.
Good luck.
A~
2007-02-13 15:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE to talk to him. If you don't things will just get worse.
Go up to him. (even if he is with his group) Put your hands on your hips or cross your arms and say " *his name* You have become addicted to this alcohol drinking. And your spending more time with your friends than me." He'll try to talk you out of this "talk" or make a witty commit about it. Don't back down. Grab him by the ear if you have to.
And if he doesn't stop then dump him. Apparently he doesn't care about you anymore. And dump him hard and cold.
2007-02-13 15:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tleek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him alot! You just said he would rather hang with the guys and drink a beer. So let him do that and move on.
2007-02-13 15:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are your friends?? he's ignoring you knowing that you're home waiting for him and missing him.. got out let him know you were out and about.. he'll either be on your doorstep.. or leave you alone still.. then you'll know where the relationship is going.. No-where!
2007-02-13 15:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by CHELAKIKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just not be available for him anymore. What they can't have they want even more. You should be too busy the next time he calls you.
2007-02-13 15:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋