Ok, I've posted the valentines card, now what???

Question

I posted a valentines card with a saucy message in it today to a guy at my work. We've never really spoken properly, just said hello as he works in a different dept. There's no way he'll know it's from me, but i'm really nervous about going in to work tomorrow and seeing him in the staffroom. What if i burst out laughing (or crying, lol!) - how should i react? Should i give him any indication that it's from me, or should i just try and act normally. Kinda having cold feet now!!!! He is lovely though.....

Answer 1

well thats the joy about valentines cards you have to work it out he will like it dont worry so much im sure he will like you when he finds that it was you who sent it

Answer 2

at first, act completely normal. give him most of the day to guess who it was and see if he gets any ideas about who it may be.

towards the end of the day (make sure you know when his shift ends) start giving slight hints if he hasn't guessed yet and see if he does, gradually get more obvious about it.

if you reach the end of the day and he still doesn't seem to get it was you then whisper the message in his ear, or part of it (if you can remember) or if you can't remember any of it then ask him who he thinks that saucy valentines card he got is from and if he cannot guess at all then tell him it was you.

it may be more effective to ask him out for a drink or something and do this while you are out, so you can ask him but continue with it without going elsewhere if he declines the offer. make sure you don't keep him too long.

Answer 3

:)

Do not open yourself otherwise it will not work. Men like playing cats and mice; they like chasing. Do not be to easy and then you will get a reward for it.

Answer 4

hey, well done! just be yourself annd see what happens. this person must be mad if he doesn`t respond.