what they say when you get maried?

Question

ok well i play a game called PSU for the 360 and my freind she getting married and she wants me to be the priest at her wedding.
and i dont know anything to say i would like you know like something to say or the basics please and thank you

ok im playing a video game and my freind she getting married in the game no real like thing and i have no ideal what to say need some guild lines

Answer 1

In a real marrage these are my lines.

Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard,
Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments;
As the dew of Hermon, kher-mone that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the Lord commanded the blessing, life for evermore.



On behalf of __________________ and _____________________ I thank each of you
for comming today as a show of your love and support for them, as we join them as husband and wife, on this auspicious beginning of life togeather.

Who gives this woman?

And the LORD God said, It is not good that man should be alone; I will make an
help meet for him.
God performed the first marriage ceremony when He presented Eve to Adam, and Adam acknowledged that she was "bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh."

Marriage is an honorable state, a covenant instituted by God, and should not be entered
into lightly. The marriage covenant is a commitment for life.

I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.
But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.


Therefore if there be any that can show just cause as to why ____________________
and_____________________ should not be joined in marriage let them now so speak or forever hold their peace.

Please kneel as we seek God's blessing.

Prayer: Father in heaven, _____________________ and _________________ have
come today seeking marriage. I pray you this day that you join them as husband and wife.

Blessing: Right hand on groom. In the power, the authority and the name of Jesus our King
and high preist, I do ask you to bestow your blessings upon ________________
and __________


As marriage is a divine institution and we are asking God to join you as husband and wife it is fitting and right that each of you should faithfully promise before God to accept the sacred marriage covenant according to the divenly imposed and ordained conditions imposed by all mighty God.

In the presence of God and these witnesses is it still your desire to covenant in marriage and to seal the same. As a token of your sincerity that you will hold fast and honor this covenant. Please kiss the Bible.

Please rise.
The apostle Paul relays to us.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth
himself.

Do you then ___________________ faithfully promise and covenant with God and these witnesses to take_____________________ to be your lawfully wedded
wife, to cleave only to her, to cherish her, to honor her and provide for her and to love her even as Christ also loved the church and gave his life for it, until your natural death?

Do you ___________________ faithfully promise and covenant with God in the presence of these witnesses, to take _________________ to be your lawfully wedded husband, to cleave only to him, to love him, to cherish and honor him and as God has ordained, to reverance him and submit yourself unto to him as unto the Lord, for the remainder of your natural life.

Ask for ring and give to groom!!!!!!

____________________Repeat after me. With this ring I thee wed, as this ring is a continual circle, as a token of my sincerity, I furthermore promise and affirm my love to you as such. Place the ring on her finger.
Give ring to bride!!!!!!

_______________Repeat after me. With this ring I thee wed.,and as this ring is a circle unbroken, as a token of my sincerity, I furthermore promise and affirm my love to you as such. Place the ring on his finger.

Please join hands. ________________. ________________. As you stand before me joined by your hands, let it be for you always a rememberance that you are no more two.
You are one flesh. Alway's walk and perform the same. What God has joined togeather let no person put asunder.

By the power granted me by God and the State of, I do now pronounce you husband and Wife. You may now kiss your bride.

Answer 2

You don't sound like you are a "man of the clothe." Try talking with them both, find out their goals and dreams and put together a short dedication to them and let them write theri own vows. Afterwords say And now you offer the exchange of the rings, the I now pronouce you husband and wife and then have the couple turn to the guests and say something like ; It is with great pleasure that i introduce you to John and Mry doe. Then they march down the ailse. A little traditon and mostly the couple.

Answer 3

Too much information to type. There are many web sites. Type in wedding vows. That will get you lots of answers. Now, in brief. "Ladies and Gentlemen, we are gathered here today to witness the joining of x and y in holly matrimony." Add a few statements about the couple. "They come here today, in the witness of god and everyone here today, to exchange vows." If they have their own vows.... introduce that. "At this time, I would like x and y to take each others hand and to face each other." Say a prayer. "OH Lord, take witness today, that x and y are here seeking your hand to guide theirs throughout life. They forsake all others today and take each other as husband and wife. Bless them and their families this day forward...etc." AHmen. "I believe x and y have rings to exchange as a symbol of love and devotion to each other. Take notice the the ring is a perfect circle, never ending as their love should be." Now, x, take her/his hand and repeat after me." I, x, take the, y, to be my lawfully wedded spouse, to love and to cherish, to have and to hold, in sickness and well as in health, to death do us part..." Repeat for other person. "Now, with the power vested in me (if ordained by state) and the state of .xxxx, I pronounce x and y married in the face of god and everyone here. ... Bottom line, research to find what you feel is right. If not a religious person, no problem, basically what comes from the heart. Hopet this helps.

Answer 4

How about if you talk to a priest, pastor, or other clergy on that one. You do need to know that in the US you have to have either ecclesiastical or county/state endorsement to perform a legal wedding.

Answer 5

She wants you to officiate?
Better get crackin' now. Some places only allow ordained & licensed ministers (along with judges & JPs), such as Ohio. You need to find out what your state requirements are.

Answer 6

Do a search on the web for marriage vows and you should find plenty of versions to choose from.

Answer 7

don't get PG to fast!!!

Answer 8

WHat!

Answer 9

What in the world is the difference between loving a person, and being attached to them? Love is the sincere wish, for others to be happy for others and free from suffering. Having realistically realized other’s kindness, as well as their faults, Love is Always focused on the other person’s welfare. We have no ulterior intensions or motives to fulfill our own self-interests; or to fulfill our own desires, we love others, all people, simply because they exist. Attachment, on the other hand, exaggerates others’ good qualities, and makes us crave to be with them. When we’re with them, we are happy, but when we’re separated from them, we’re miserable. Attachments are always linked with expectations of what others should be, or what they should do for us. Is love, as it is understood in most societies, really love OR attachment ? Let us examine this a little more. Generally speaking, we are attracted {drawn to) people because they have qualities we value, or because they help us in some way. If we carefully observe, through introspection, our own thought processes we’ll notice that we very often look for specific qualities in others. Some of these qualities we are drawn to are qualities within our parents, or qualities which society values.
We examine someone’s looks, education, social status, financial status, and so forth. This is how Most of us decide on whether or not the person holds any true value, or not. In addition, we judge people as worthwhile according to how they relate to us. If they praise us, encourage us, help us, if they listen to what we have to say, if they make us feel secure, if they take care of us when were sick, unhappy or depressed, we consider them good, or sometimes righteous people, and these are the people we more drawn to, whom we are most likely attracted to, and the people we choose to be around with.
In all honesty, this is very biased, for we are judging them, only in terms of how they relate to us, as if we are the most important person in the world & thinking the world revolves around us! After we’ve judged certain people to be good for us, whenever we see them, it appears to us as if goodness is radiating out from within them, but as we are more mindfully aware, we realize that we have projected this goodness on to them.
Desiring to be the people who make us feel good, we become emotional yo-yo’s, when we’re with these people, we’re up, but when we’re not with them, we’re down. Furthermore, we form fixed concepts of what our relationships with these people will be, and thus have expectations of them. “When they do not live up to our expectations of them, we’re unhappy, disappointed or may even become angry. We want them to change so that they will match what we think they are. But our projections and expectations come from our own minds, not from other people. Our problems arise not because others aren’t who we thought they were, but because we mistakenly thought they were something they were not. We often use a type of Checklist also. Checklist: “I Love You IF ___________ !” This Love is Conditional and what we call love, is most often attachment. It is actually an attitude which overestimates the qualities of another person.
’Then we cling tightly to that person, thinking our peace and happiness depends on that person. We even often blame that person for our unhappiness.’ Love, on the other hand, is a very patient, calm, optimistic and relaxed attitude. We want others to be free from suffering and to be happy simply because they exist. While attachments are uncontrolled, and too emotionally sentimental, Love is Patient, powerful, and controlled(disciplined). Attachment obscures our judgment {our ability to make sound, wise decisions), and we become impatient, angry, and impartial – helping our dear ones, and those who do us no harm. Love clarifies our mind, & we access a situation by thinking of the greatest good for everyone. Attachment is based on selfishness, while love is founded on valuing, & cherishing others, even those who do not look very appealing to us. Love always looks beyond all the superficial appearances and dwells on the fact that they are just like us: they want peace of mind, happiness, and wish to avoid suffering. If we see unattractive, or unintelligent people we most often feel repulsed, because our selfish minds want to find attractive, intelligent, and talented people. On the other hand, Love never evaluates others by theses superficial standards and looks much deeper into the person. Love recognizes that regardless of the others appearances, they’re experiences are they same as ours: they want inner mental peace, happiness, and wish to be from suffering. When we’re attached, we’re not mentally, emotionally, & spiritually free. For we overly depend on, and cling to another person, to fulfill our emotional, mental, and spiritual needs. We fear losing the person, fearing that we’d be incomplete without them.” This does Not mean that we should suppress all our emotional needs, or become aloof, and totally independent, for that too would not solve the problem. We must simply realize our unrealistic needs and slowly, gently and patiently – seek to eliminate them. If we try to suppress them, pretending they do not exist, we become insecure, anxious, or possibly depressed. In this case, we do our best to fulfill our needs, while simultaneously working gradually to subdue them. The core problem is that most of us seek to be loved, rather than to love. We yearn to be understood by others, rather than to understand them. Our sense of emotional insecurities comes from the selfish obscuring of our own minds. We develop confidence by recognizing our inner potential to become a Selfless human being, having many magnificent qualities, then we’ll develop and have an accurate perception of ourselves, gaining self-confidence. We’ll seek to increase true unconditional love, to increase compassion, to cultivate patience, as well as generosity, right concentration and wisdom. Under the influence of attachment, we’re bound by our unstable emotional reactions to others. When they’re nice to us, we’re happy, but when they ignore us or speak sharply to us, we take it personally, and are unhappy. But pacifying attachment doesn’t mean we become hard-hearted, rather without attachments, there will be space in our hearts and minds for genuine affection and impartial love for them. And as a result, we’ll be more actively involved with them. As we learn to transform our minds & lives, through subduing our attachments, we can definitely have successful friendships, and personal relationships with others. These relationships will be richer, more meaningful because of the freedom and respect the relationships are based on. We’ll really care about the happiness and misery of all human beings equally, simply because everyone is the same inside: we all want inner peace of mind, Happiness, and to be from suffering.
However, of course, our lifestyles and interests may be a bit more compatible with some people. Our friendships and our personal relationships will be based on mutual interests, and to help other people. Having such an attitude, we’ll be much More Patient, & tolerant toward others; will remain mentally calm, having Peace of Mind and Happiness, and we’ll communicate successfully with others in life.

Answer 10

what?