And is that a fair enough reason to give when telling someone you think "we should just leave it". Fair enough I was only seeing this girl for just less than 2 months but believe me that is plenty of time to fall for someone isn't it? My freinds and family had never seen me so happy, we had such a laugh together, now I feel she has thrown something special away and for no real reason other than the above. My other questions are related to this matter - how much longer does the knot in my stomach stop me from eating solids and feeling sick, in fact even if I don't eat it's still there. Also when will I be able to work, talk to my friends, watch telly, listen to the radio, or do pretty much anything without thinking about asking her the same old questions I've been asking her since friday? e.g. "Why?"
2007-02-13 07:30:12 · 8 answers · asked by Chaka Demus N Pliers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a nice way of saying "you are not the right guy for me...because I am still looking for Mr. Right who will treat me like crap and then I will call you and say, I should've dated you when I had the chance">))))
2007-02-13 07:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is broken, it will be a matter of TIME before it gets pieced back together. You don't really want to be with a girl that is going to just tell you "we should just leave it". It means she's NOT serious about your relationship with her. Don't dwell so much on her because she's not worth it, i know it hurts but you have to try & MOVE ON. I think the best thing for you is to talk to your friends, go out, keep going to work & do everything else that you usually do that makes you happy & keeps your life going. Keep yourself busy. If you stay home & be depressed, it will not help you, it just makes things worse for you. It's more healthier to keep moving forward in life & don't ever forget who is more important in this situation is YOU & making sure you take care of yourself no matter what happens. GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-13 15:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she is not ready to commit to you and be in a monogamous relationship. Sorry. Most women at a certain age choose to have fun and leave their options open. Sometimes we want a man to be our freind because we value the relationship and don't want to lose it. Sometimes you are a fun and interesting person but the attraction isn't there.
The way I see it honeychild.... you have 2 options. Love her enough to let her be where she is at this time, or bough out of the situation to protect your feelings from further harm. I know rejection hurts Honeychild, but it happens to the best of us. Sometimes the one on one relationship is just not meant to be with that person.Let go and let God.
2007-02-13 15:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by fatbabyceesay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what it says. She probably isn't ready to be in a committed relationship right now. It may be because of family or her own personal issues. Give her time and if it was meant to be it will be.
2007-02-13 15:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever someone says that, there is more than likely a deeper, underlying reason that she doesn't want to admit to.
i would try to have a talk with her, and tell her that she can tell you whats on her mind.
if something is truly bothering her, offer to help her through it, and then maybe the two of you can still continue the relationship.
2007-02-13 15:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she got hurt in her last relationship and thinks it's a possiblility you might do the same
2007-02-13 15:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by dabombae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does not want YOU as her boyfriend. she is waiting for something better to come along. i'm sorry!
2007-02-13 15:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pretty self explanitory
2007-02-13 15:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by jim_shoe31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋