I've thought about it, Are they fun? Would you do it? Let me know what they are like.
2007-02-13 07:24:18 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your boyfriend, "sure, as long as it's 2 guys and me." If sex is just recreational for you then why not. Go ahead. If sex is about love and commitment, then a 3-some turns it into a joke. We already know that it isn't about love and commitment for your boyfriend...it's just recreational and you alone aren't cutting it.
2007-02-13 07:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not bi sexual I say don't do it. Think about this. You plan it..there are three people involved which is not and even number. One of those people is a girl he is not sleeping with already..he will get excited and caught up in the moment and if you arent careful it will turn into you watching your man have sex with another girl. If you are determined to do it there must be rules for example...he can only have sex with you...make it about you and don't let him go to far with her. It would work out best if the women is not bi but gay(but into threesomes) that way all the attention will be on you. Still a threesome but not as bad as with a straight girl. I think its a bad idea. I would never do one with my boyfriend its not worth the possible bad feelings the next day.
2007-02-13 07:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by melissaw219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...let me tell you...its really fun. I mean the best. Especially the part when your bf will totally ignore you, and spend all his time f u ck i n g the other chick. I love that. You'll love just sitting there watching the man you love get off on some other chick that is probably much hotter than you are...and then whats even better is when its all over...and just the two of you try having sex again...all he's doing is thinking about the other girl. That rules...and ultimately it will destroy your relationship.
Have Fun!!!
2007-02-13 07:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
wrong idea. he just wants to have something different, and if you let him do this, you might as well say good bye to him. he will think its OK to cheat on you because you let him or should i say you opened the door for him to sleep with other people. this will hurt your relationship then help it. besides it becomes an trust issue too the women you get to go along with it might start to like him then your out of luck and back on your own.. think it over and don't do this and if he pushes the issue then rethink him as your BF,
2007-02-13 07:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can be fun, but they're tricky. You have to be in a place in your relationship where you're REALLY secure with what you have and what each of you want. I know couples that have had them and really enjoyed them, but they all say the same thing.....they talked about it alot before they did it and they had ground rules set-up.
But if you're having serious doubts, I wouldn't do it. Remember that threesomes are one of those things that can't be undone later.
2007-02-13 07:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by OhKatie! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been the third person in a 3some before and afterwards, it caused problems for the couple. the girl is the one who initiated it though and asked for it, but later, she regretted it and so the two of them had problems. if you guys are committed and very serious, i would say not to do it and to possibly reevaluate your relationship because him wanting this is a sign he's not as committed as you may be. if you guys aren't super serious and are just together to have fun and just to have someone, then go for it. the whole thing in and of itself was fun.
2007-02-13 07:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by nc_strawberry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! YOU HAVE DOUBTS! STOP THERE! I know you wanna please your guy but he needs to be aware of your feelings too! I can tell you are not into that kind of thing... If he can't handle you now, how can he handle two? Plus that is his way of saying that he wants to cheat with someone and you will be dumb enough to let it happen. What is wrong with this guy? Then he'll keep asking you to do it...
My X hus done it b4 with 2 sisters and I was discusted! He kept asking me and I know that I never want to do that so, when he kept asking me, I told him yes but when it was time to get down, he chickened out. Thing is, when someone loves you, he would never want to see you with someone else, female or male...
2007-02-13 07:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never done a threesome and never would. All of the people I have known that have done this it has caused problems in the couple's relationship. I think if your not sure then that is your gut telling you that you don't want to do it. Don't do anything that you are not going to be comfortable with. Good Luck!
2007-02-13 07:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never had one and would never have one. However I know a friend of mine who has and she loved it. It did not ruin there relationship as most would have thought actually for them it was just the opposite it seemed to have strengthened there bond together. I say to each his own and if you are not comfortable with the idea do not do it. Others I know who have tried it for the sake of making there boyfriends happy have ended up regretting it.
2007-02-13 07:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only advice I have for you is DO NOT do anything you are not 100% comfortable with. Check your insecuruties and jealousies at the door and set limits that will work for you. Threesomes and the experience is different for everyone.. only you can decide what you will be okay with.
2007-02-13 07:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋