What should I talk about when I call up a guy I haven't talked to in a while...I am wanting to go out somewhere with him. How do I say I like him without directly telling him?
2007-02-13 07:23:03 · 12 answers · asked by ~Lost N' Love~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hint . it's so obvious when girls call with nothin much 2 talk bout
they usually want some
(omg. i gave up a guy secret)
2007-02-13 07:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about life and what you have been up to, talk about things you have in common. If he seems keen to carry on talking then it is a good sign, although also remember that some guys arent that great on the phone too! You could ask if he's free on a specific day - maybe suggest him coming out with you and friends first maybe at the weekend? If he says yes then you can ask him out then if all is going well and perhaps suggest doing something together. If he agrees to come out with you and mates it may be that he is keen and you can read the signs when you see him. It's possible he may say no to going out If he says that he is busy etc just suggest another date you and your mates are going out and tell him to let you know/text you if he is free nearer the time. You could also text him and say hi before you call to break the ice you may be able to read the signals before you call.....
2007-02-13 15:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by bexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to go about it is to say hi and ask how he's been since you haven't talked to him in a while. Then take the convo from there. If it goes well, ask him if he wants to get together. I wouldn't flat out say you like him then and there, because the fact that you want to get together is enough to show him you're interested.
2007-02-13 15:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Keyser Soze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it but boys are stupid they need things said right out to them they don't take hints well. I would just ask him if he would like to go out with you sometime because otherwise if you don't say it directly the chance that he will ask you is slim. I would just start off by asking him how he has been and how is life is going right now.
2007-02-13 15:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its early in the friendship you should have plenty to talk about. youre trying to get to know someone.. ask all you can to try and figure out what youre getting yourself into. if the convos are dull now.. i dont want to see what it will be like later.. give hints.. like leave him a cute little note on his car or locker or something.. just like have a great day :) do something thoughtful.. buy him his fav candy.. tell him theres a movie coming out that you wanna see..if you like this guy you'll find a way. no worries. dont say you like him unless you know he feels the same way.. you want to keep him guessing.
2007-02-13 15:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by prettiness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may say that you like all the guys you know and he will know that you like him too! Let me ask you what's wrong in telling the guy that you kinda like him rather than playing guessing games?
2007-02-13 15:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its real hard for us men to mind read, if you dont ask us out somewhere OR tell us you like us, HOW THE HELL ARE WE SUPPOSED TO KNOW?? lol we can't ask out every girl that is being nice to us that makes us PIGS lol. so you can either tell him really subtly that you like him OR ask him out to lunch or a venue, im SURE he will get the picture
2007-02-13 15:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by cyclonisz2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how have things been, and if he wants to get together and catch up on old times.
2007-02-13 15:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by Muchacha Mala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk..like say whats up and how he's been doing, what hes been doing. stuff like that. then the convo will start to "flow" =]
2007-02-13 15:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by soccer_chick8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask what he has been doing with himself and what things he enjoys. In conversation find things you would enjoy doing together and show him you are interested in doing something together.
2007-02-13 15:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋