just asked a girl out?

Question

and she just said i dont know i will have to think about it its cos of my exs , but she did say before that she likes me 100 % so what is she doing do all girls do this when they get asked out

Answer 1

All girls do it in certain circumstances, depends what the story is with the ex's.

Answer 2

Defintely not. Some girls are very careful about the people they choose to date, and others will fall in love the second you look at them. This girl is probably just being cautious before entering a relationship with you because, like she said, you have a lot of exs. So give it some time. Wait for her answer. And if she says no, then she is either wayy too careful around guys (sometimes you just have to give it a shot!) or she lied about liking you.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Maybe the case is that she likes you a lot and don't want you to hurt her the way that all the other guys did. Caue she made the comment of the ex's. That would be my guess, and I have said that before. Actually to the guy that I am dating now. He asked me to go out with him and I haven't had the best luck with guys. I told him that I would think about it, but we are together now and I couldn't be happier.

Answer 4

NO, she is trippin don't waste your time worrying about it. She just wants you to chase her, we like to feel wanted. Don't ask again though because then you are opening the door for her to take control of the situation. Just leave it alone and then when or if she brings it up again just act like you forgot you even asked her and say something like, oh yeah. . . well . . . when you said you had to think about it I kind of made other plans because you didn't really seem intersted but . . .we can probably do something next week (or pick the day after of before you originally asked her)
We like it when we think a guy is desireble by other women

Answer 5

Well, I know that when I am asked out, the last thing I think about are my exes. I do usually say I have to think about it though. Its because we don't want to seem too desperate. If she really likes you she will say yes very soon.

Answer 6

usually if a girl says i dont know , it means she has a reallly bad past with her relation ships if she has had really badd experiences and problems with her ex's then you shouldnt even worry , but also some girls just dont know how to say no so she also could just use a little time , but then again she said she likes you 100% i dont think you have nothing to worry about just have some patience hhaha <33 hope i helpedd

Answer 7

is her ex a nutcase? maybe she protecting you, i fell for a guy, and couldn't take it further because of my ex, that was a long time ago, but i told him that i did love him, and was devastated when my ex wouldn't leave us alone, well you guessed we split, it might be her way of saying no, but if she says she loves you, then why would she say that if she didn't, there has to be a reason, doesn't there ? good luck honey x

Answer 8

What? Learn to write better as your question is a lot of blathering. I gurantee the girl is NOT interested in you regardless of what she says. If she were interested she would have accepted your invitation. Move on.

Answer 9

maybe you kinda remind her of her exs. no, not all girls are like this when they get asked out. but, just be patient and let the boat ride the storm.

Answer 10

She obviously has doubts about you, so if I was you, i would move on, no not all girls do that, just the ones that dont trust you