feelings for him or her.
i need opinion from both male and female
2007-02-13 07:07:15 · 19 answers · asked by Lamoya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say sometimes you have to go with you head and not your heart. cause the head protects the heart.
2007-02-13 07:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by kingsgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people still have feelings for their exes after they have broken up. It takes time to get over feelings. I would suggest giving a good amount of time (at least a month, if not two) to see if those feelings get any better. If you both still have strong feelings, you may want to give it a second chance-- but only after a serious discussion about the relationship. (Why the people broke up also factors in, if it was something minor then it might not be bad to get back together, but if it was major, you probably don't want to get back together).
2007-02-13 07:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes even when we still have feelings for someone, we know the relationship isn't right for us or wont work out. When this is the case it is best to not get back with them. Sometimes we get in a cycle with exes where we need to move on but don't. If your gut says no, follow it.
2007-02-13 07:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to just get over it.Trying to make it work with an ex that you've called it quits is kind of like taking a jug of milk from the refrigerator and finding out it is spoiled and then put it back in thinking it might be good when you go back to get it.
2007-02-13 07:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel that it's not a good idea then more than likely it's not. Go with your gut and not your heart. Whatever made you walk away is more than likely still there and unless the 2 of you have resolved it or plan to resolve it, it's going to come back.
2007-02-13 07:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's most likely not a good idea. They are your ex for a reason. I played the game with an ex for a while...date, not date, date, etc. Ultimatly, it was a waste of time and I regret not moving on after the first breakup.
2007-02-13 07:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he likes you, you like him- why isn't it a good idea? What was the problem with your previous relationship? Tell your ex that you would like to get back together, but only if you can work out your problems. And don't get married right away... just hang in the relationship for a while to see if things have changed.
Good luck!
2007-02-13 07:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I got back with mine and ended up marrying him and have been for 15 years. Heres the thing to remember....Whatever he did before to annoy you and irritate you the first time chances are he will still do it. So ask yourself if this is something that you can live with If not save yourself the heartbreak and don't get back together.
2007-02-13 07:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think it just depends on how strong your feelings are for your ex..if you loved that person then i would definately give it another shot love is a very hard thing to come by and you should cherish it when you do have it
2007-02-13 07:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by patrick d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that and have resolved to never go back to a former whatever. When it's over--it's over. Time to move on.
sf
2007-02-13 07:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Silver Fox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋