is it wrong to try to fix up my friend with a guy that use to have a crush on me? why or why not?
2007-02-13 07:05:47 · 12 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it isn't wrong. If you think they would make a nice couple, why not try to fix them up?
2007-02-13 07:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have they met at all? If they have met the guy may be insulted unless he expresses some interest in her, in fact so may the girl. In a case like that, you might let each of them know privately that you would have no problem with them liking each other. I suppose you could just tell the girl, but what you say to the guy would depend on whether your knowing he has had a crush on you was out in the open. Still it is something that would have to be done delicately, you want them both to remain your friends. Also, if they haven't met you could introduce them without fixing them up and watch what happens, that way they wouldn't feel rejected and they could see if there was an attraction. Then you would be in the situation above, unless they came and asked you if it was OK, or just didn't ask at all.
2007-02-13 07:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong.
As long as the "use to" is still in effect. Just be sure that this person does not still have any feelings for you. Cause if they do, it could cause you to lose a close friend, and that's probably something you are trying to avoid by asking this question.
Just introduce them and see if they hit it off. Don't do anything drastic though, cause they may hate each other, and be pissed at you for fixing them up in the first place.
But go for it. Just make sure that all the questions you want to know have been answered!
Wish ya the best!
2007-02-13 07:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not wrong, as long as the guy is okay with it.And you are okay with it, And of course your friend has to be okay with it as well!
After all, a crush is different than having been in a relationship. Should be no cause for hurt feelings if you are all mature about the situation. Best wishes to all!
2007-02-13 08:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can say from experience that there's nothing wrong with trying to hook ur friend up. if u have no interest in the guy, maybe ur friend will, and the keyword is "used" to have a crush on u. that's actually how i met my husband in college. my now-best friend pushed him off on me because he was interested in her, but she had no feelings for him. she introduced me, and me and my husband have been married for 3 years and have 9 month old baby girl. so just give it a try, the worst that could happen is ur friend could say no.
2007-02-13 07:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by shaq 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so...I'm working on fixing one of my friends up with another friend of mine - a guy I had a thing with off and on for a few years.
2007-02-13 07:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way I would see it as bad is if he still had feelings for you and you are just trying to get rid of him. If that is the case then don't do it. But if you are just trying to be a friend and you think that they would mesh well together. Then I don't see any problem in you introducing them together.
2007-02-13 07:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so b/c if the girl likes the guy or the other way around, they should be together. my friend that had a crush on me asked me out for his friend and we've been together ever since. =]
2007-02-13 07:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by soccer_chick8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u said it urself it was just a crush, and as u r the one fixing them then sure u have no feelings 4 him anymore so why not??
2007-02-13 07:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by She 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...friends can use help sometimes.
2007-02-13 07:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋