The pain when you have a suspicion your girl is cheating on you.. non-stop thinking about, analyzing everything... or the pain when you finally are broken up?? How long does each last???
Basically.. I don't trust my girl, and am going through a lot of pain/emotions right now. Does it get better once it's over, or worse?
2007-02-13 07:01:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
both its gonna hurt for awhile if you really care about this person either way, you need to ask her if she has real feelings for you or else you gotta let her go, my opinion is that the breakup hurts most, but thats just me. but if she is messing around behind your back thats gonna be way worse so talk to her about it
2007-02-13 07:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by puppy8090 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont assume, and break up just because you think she is cheating. Have a serious talk about it with her. Ask her if she is cheating and that it really means alot to you for you to know. Tell her to be honest. If she is cheating, my advice is to break up. Its not worth having someone that you are worthy to, and they are not worthy back. It breaks the trust in relationships for long periods of time, and sometimes those bonds do not come back. I know exaclty what you are going through, and I was glad to find out the truth about my boyfriend, and finally break it off. Yes, there is a grieving period, but it is much better then sitting there wondering, constantly. You eventually move on to new and better people, and you will feel much better. You are a good person, you deserve good things, and good people.
2007-02-13 07:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a cheating b/f... and I was hurting when I thought he was cheating and when he told me he cheated... and then I was relieved to break up with him... so i would say it hurts more to have a suspicion...
2007-02-13 07:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust her and you two have discussed the issues...you probably are not going to be boyfriend/girlfriend much longer.
2007-02-13 07:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just rather know and get it over with.
2007-02-13 07:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will get better, give it time.
2007-02-13 07:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋