I think there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them... do you think if it is real, true unconditional love.. that it ever dies or changes... I think it can be pushed so far back in your heart by circumstances that it seems like it is gone but I don't think it ever truly leaves you... what do you think??? Please serious opinions/answers only. If you don't believe in true love, please don't answer this question.
2007-02-13 06:58:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a believer... You are correct in saying that circumstances of various things can and most likely will push the thought back in your mind so to speak. But yes, it is still there and will remain there as long as it was true from the start. The trick is to find things to bring those feelings back into focus and express them to your significant other when ever possible. It is a hard road but has tremendous benefits...
2007-02-13 07:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe in true love! There is truly a difference in being in love and loving someone! I just recently married the man I have been in love with for about 16 yrs now. We dated in Jr. High School and on and off for years. He lived his life and lived mine! He had children with other women and I had a son for someone else! During these times we would always make time for one another and still dated! He got married and I moved away but we still kept in touched over time! To make a long story short! When you are in love with someone the feelings never die and you go thru things that truly make your love stronger and in time if it is truly meant for the both of you it will happen and last! Remember this if something is meant it will happen at the right not when you want it to happen! Love is something that is very hard to understand, but to if it is true love sometimes we my never understand!
2007-02-13 07:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by nikki 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that love can last and often does for many years but I also think that love can be torn apart and die. You can love someone with all your heart but have that love replaced by hurt and anger until there is nothing left. I do believe in true love! I met my husband 17 years ago and I absolutely love him with all my heart.We love, respect and trust one another. We also agree to disagree! Our love has grown and changed over the years and is alive and well. That is not always the case though.
2007-02-13 07:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by breezy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think being in love is when both people share it. I think that loving someone sometimes can be one sided. Both can grow and change because people do change. Both the person that the loving is coming from and the receiver. I don't think that it really ever really does leave the receiver or the giver. What ever good that comes of the situation stays. :)
2007-02-13 07:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that true love only lasts if both partners feel strongly about each other's happiness. I was once in love with a girl who didn't like me. Even though I had surrendered, I could still never forget her. Part of me wants to keep trying no matter how hopeless it really is, and another part of me knows it only makes it that much worse by trying.
2007-02-13 07:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think once you really love somebody,this love never die,or change.It can go to a different stages,but never dies even if the destiny make you apart for whatever reason ,life goes on but still that love you will never forget.It will always be in your heart and head,the good moments even the bad ones will always be there.
2007-02-13 07:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by realistic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it does. Read the papers for the anniversaries. 30 -50 -60 years. True love will get you through all the obsticles because of the love and respect you have for each other. Love is earned, trust is gained, friendship is important, pride and admiration, understanding. it is all there to be had.
2007-02-13 07:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Venus Virgo No... It makes me bitter analyzing approximately fictional memories or genuine money owed that seem into the ideas of somebody who's in a relationship, how they secretly seem down upon their better half or ridicule them or get pissed off with them and pretend that each thing is okay. i'm valuable somebody would tell me all relationships have their united statesand downs, yet while i'm no longer suitable for somebody as i'm, then I see no reason to be in a relationship the place i'd would desire to continuously paintings to fulfill the needs of somebody. i do on no account prefer to be seen decrease than valuable, or have somebody experience an inkling of remorseful approximately or impatience in the direction of me. i assume existence companions would desire to final continually, yet i do no longer probably pay interest to that style of element. i'm too blinded via stupid, selfish teen love i assume, LOL (no longer my teen love, yet all people else around me)
2016-09-29 01:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it dies entirely, at least in my case I'm still in love with my first girlfriend from high school 30 years ago. But a-lass, love is a two way street, she fell in love with a college chum married and annulled to make it to husband number 3.
2007-02-13 07:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at how hosed up modern culture has made you. You can't even see the obvious.
Look at all the old couples that have been together forever. That is true love and it does last. It just don't sell a lot of lipstick or perfume.
Stop reading silly books/magizines and watching TV.
2007-02-13 07:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋